{"id":14878,"date":"2016-12-01T14:11:41","date_gmt":"2016-12-01T12:11:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/?p=14878"},"modified":"2016-12-01T14:11:41","modified_gmt":"2016-12-01T12:11:41","slug":"3-evlilikleri-ve-ailesi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/?p=14878","title":{"rendered":"3. Evlilikleri ve Ailesi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eb\u00fb Bekir (r.a) d\u00f6rt evlilik yapm\u0131\u015f ve bunlardan alt\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fu d\u00fcnyaya gelmi\u015ftir. \u0130lk evlili\u011fini Kuteyle bint Abd\u00fcluzz\u00e2 adl\u0131 bir han\u0131mla yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu evlilikten o\u011flu Abdullah ile k\u0131z\u0131 Esm\u00e2 do\u011fdu. Eb\u00fb Bekir bu han\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 Cahiliye devrinde bo\u015fad\u0131.[1]<\/a> Bu kad\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fcsl\u00fcman olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ihtilafl\u0131d\u0131r.[2]<\/a> Medine devrinde yan\u0131na keler, \u00e7\u00f6kelek ve ya\u011fdan olu\u015fan hediyeler alarak k\u0131z\u0131 Esm\u00e2\u2019y\u0131 ziyarete geldi\u011finde h\u00e2l\u00e2 m\u00fc\u015frik oldu\u011fu ifade edilir. Esm\u00e2 (r.a), bu sebeple onun hediyelerini kabul etmek ve evine girmesine izin vermek istemedi. Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe (v. 58\/678), bu durumu Ras\u00fbl-i Ekrem\u2019e soruverdi. Bunun \u00fczerine Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2: \u201cAllah, din konusunda sizinle sava\u015fmayan ve sizi yurtlar\u0131n\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131karmayanlarla iyi ili\u015fkiler i\u00e7inde olman\u0131z\u0131 ve onlara adaletli davranman\u0131z\u0131 yasaklamaz. Allah adaletli olanlar\u0131 elbette sever\u201d<\/b>[3]<\/a> <\/b>\u00e2yetini indirdi. Bunun \u00fczerine Ras\u00fblullah (s.a.v) Esm\u00e2\u2019ya annesinin hediyelerini kabul etmesini ve evine girmesine izin vermesini s\u00f6yledi.[4]<\/sup><\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

Hz. Eb\u00fb Bekir yine Cahiliye devrinde \u00dcmm\u00fc R\u00fbm\u00e2n ile evlenmi\u015ftir.[5]<\/a> \u00dcmm\u00fc R\u00fbm\u00e2n\u2019dan Abdurrahman ile \u00c2i\u015fe d\u00fcnyaya geldiler. \u00dcmm\u00fc R\u00fbm\u00e2n vefat edince Eb\u00fb Bekir (r.a) Medine\u2019de Esm\u00e2 bint Umeys ile evlendi ve bu han\u0131m\u0131ndan Muhammed ad\u0131n\u0131 verdi\u011fi bir o\u011flu do\u011fdu. Esm\u00e2 daha \u00f6nce Ca\u02bbfer b. Eb\u00ee T\u00e2lib\u2019in han\u0131m\u0131 idi. Hicretten sonra Ras\u00fblullah (s.a.v) \u201cmu\u00e2h\u00e2t\u201dta Hz. Eb\u00fb Bekir\u2019i H\u00e2rice b. Zeyd ile karde\u015f yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Eb\u00fb Bekir (r.a) bir m\u00fcddet H\u00e2rice\u2019ye misafir oldu. Daha sonra onun k\u0131z\u0131 Hab\u00eebe ile evlendi. Vefat\u0131ndan birka\u00e7 ay sonra bu han\u0131m\u0131ndan \u00dcmm\u00fc K\u00fcls\u00fbm adl\u0131 k\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fcnyaya geldi.[6]<\/a><\/p>\n

Hz. Eb\u00fb Bekir\u2019in en b\u00fcy\u00fck o\u011flu Abdurrahman, Bedir ve Uhud sava\u015flar\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015fman saflar\u0131nda yer alm\u0131\u015f, babas\u0131 kendisiyle sava\u015fmak istemi\u015f ancak Ras\u00fblullah (s.a.v) buna mani olmu\u015ftu. Abdurrahman, Hudeybiye Sulh\u00fc\u2019nden sonra m\u00fctareke g\u00fcnlerinde m\u00fcsl\u00fcman oldu ve Fetih\u2019ten evvel hicret etti. \u015eecaatiyle \u015f\u00f6hret kazand\u0131 ve m\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlara faydas\u0131 dokunan takdire \u015f\u00e2yan i\u015fler yapt\u0131. Yem\u00e2me\u2019nin fethinde bulundu, M\u00fcseylime\u2019nin yak\u0131n arkada\u015f\u0131 Muhakkem b. Tufeyl\u2019i bir surun gedi\u011finde \u00f6ld\u00fcrerek M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n oradan kaleye girmesine ve M\u00fcseylime\u2019ye ula\u015fmas\u0131na zemin haz\u0131rlad\u0131. \u015eam\u2019\u0131n fethinde bulundu. M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinden ve efendilerinden idi. Hi\u00e7 yalan s\u00f6yledi\u011fi duyulmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Yezid\u2019e bey\u02bbat etmemi\u015f, Mekke\u2019ye giderek orada vefat etmi\u015ftir.[7]<\/a><\/p>\n

Abdurrahman, m\u00fcsl\u00fcman olduktan sonra bir g\u00fcn babas\u0131na: \u201cBedir sava\u015f\u0131nda bana iyice yakla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131n (seni kolayca \u00f6ld\u00fcrebilece\u011fim bir f\u0131rsat yakalam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m), fakat senden uzakla\u015f\u0131p gittim, seni \u00f6ld\u00fcrmedim\u201d dedi. Eb\u00fb Bekir (r.a) ona: \u201c\u015eayet orada sen bana yakla\u015fsayd\u0131n ben senden uzakla\u015f\u0131p gitmezdim\u201d dedi.[8]<\/a><\/p>\n

Abdullah, ilk g\u00fcnlerde m\u00fcsl\u00fcman olmu\u015f, hicrette \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir rol \u00fcstlenmi\u015f, T\u00e2if ku\u015fatmas\u0131nda bir okla yaralanm\u0131\u015f ve Ras\u00fblullah\u2019\u0131n vefat\u0131ndan k\u0131rk g\u00fcn sonra bu yara sebebiyle Medine\u2019de \u015fehit olmu\u015ftur.[9]<\/a><\/p>\n

Muhammed b. Eb\u00ee Bekir, Ved\u00e2 Hacc\u0131\u2019na giderken yolda do\u011fmu\u015f, annesi Esm\u00e2 bint Umeys Hz. Eb\u00fb Bekir\u2019in vefat\u0131ndan sonra Hz. Ali ile evlendi\u011fi i\u00e7in Hz. Ali\u2019nin himayesinde b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. Kurey\u015f\u2019in kahraman gen\u00e7lerinden idi. Ali (r.a) onu M\u0131s\u0131r\u2019a v\u00e2li tayin etti ve hicr\u00ee 38 senesinde orada \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcld\u00fc. Hz. Ali onu metheder ve faziletli biri oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylerdi. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o \u00e7ok ibadet eder ve Allah yolunda b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcc\u00fcyle cihad ederdi. Hz. Osman\u2019\u0131n kan\u0131na ortak olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 tart\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, Hz. Osman\u2019\u0131n \u201cBaban seni g\u00f6rseydi \u015fu halinden raz\u0131 olmazd\u0131\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc \u00fczerine geri d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fc a\u011f\u0131r basm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.[10]<\/a><\/p>\n

Esm\u00e2 bint Eb\u00ee Bekir, Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe\u2019den daha b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr. \u00dcmm\u00fc G\u00fcls\u00fcm ise babas\u0131n\u0131n vefat\u0131ndan sonra do\u011fmu\u015ftur. Hz. Eb\u00fb Bekir onun k\u0131z olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nceden tahmin edip Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe\u2019ye s\u00f6ylemi\u015ftir.[11]<\/a> \u00dcmm\u00fc G\u00fcls\u00fcm daha sonra Talha b. Ubeydullah (v. 36\/656) ile evlenmi\u015ftir.[12]<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00c2limler, bir aileden m\u00fcteselsilen d\u00f6rt ki\u015finin sahabi olmas\u0131 faziletinin ancak Eb\u00fb Bekir ailesine nasip oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemi\u015flerdir. Bunlar: Abdullah b. Z\u00fcbeyr, annesi Esm\u00e2 bint-i Eb\u00ee Bekir b. Eb\u00ee Kuh\u00e2fe\u2019dir. Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde Muhammed b. Abdurrahman b. Eb\u00ee Bekir b. Eb\u00ee Kuh\u00e2fe sisilesinin hepsi de sahabi olmu\u015flard\u0131r. Ashab-\u0131 kiramdan babas\u0131, annesi, erkekler ve kad\u0131nlar y\u00f6n\u00fcnden evlatlar\u0131 ve evlatlar\u0131n\u0131n evlatlar\u0131 m\u00fcsl\u00fcman olup da Allah Ras\u00fbl\u00fc\u2019ne eri\u015fen ve sahabi olan, Eb\u00fb Bekir\u2019den ba\u015fka bir ki\u015fi yoktur. Onun ailesi iman ehli, evi iman evidir, i\u00e7lerinde hi\u00e7 m\u00fcnaf\u0131\u011f\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ifade edilir. Sahabe aras\u0131nda Eb\u00fb Bekir\u2019in ailesinden ba\u015fka b\u00f6ylesine nezih ve faziletli bir aile bilinmemektedir.[13]<\/a><\/p>\n


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[1]<\/a> H\u00e2kim, Eb\u00fb Abdillah Muhammed bin Abdillah b. Muhammed en-Neys\u00e2b\u00fbr\u00ee (v. 405\/1014), el-M\u00fcstedrek ale\u2019s-Sah\u00eehayn <\/i>(I-IV), thk. Mustafa Abd\u00fclk\u00e2dir At\u00e2, Beyrut: D\u00e2ru\u2019l-K\u00fct\u00fcbi\u2019l-\u0130lmiyye, 1411\/1990, II, 527\/3804. Kr\u015f. Ahmed b. Muhammed b. Hanbel b. Hil\u00e2l b. Esed e\u015f-\u015eeyb\u00e2n\u00ee, Eb\u00fb Abdullah (v. 241\/855), M\u00fcsned<\/i> (I-VI), K\u00e2hire: M\u00fcesseset\u00fc Kurtuba, ts., IV, 4.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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[2]<\/a> Sall\u00e2b\u00ee, Eb\u00fb Bekir es-S\u0131dd\u00eek,<\/i> s. 21.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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[3]<\/a> el-M\u00fcc\u00e2dele 60\/8.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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[4]<\/a> Ahmed, IV, 4; H\u00e2kim, II, 527-528\/3804. H\u00e2kim bu hadisin \u201csahih\u201d oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemi\u015f, Zeheb\u00ee de bu hususta ona muvafakat etmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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[5]<\/a> \u0130bn\u00fc\u2019l-Es\u00eer, Eb\u00fc\u2019l-Hasen \u0130zz\u00fcdd\u00een Al\u00ee b. Muhammed b. Muhammed e\u015f-\u015eeyb\u00e2n\u00ee el-Cezer\u00ee (v. 630\/1233), el-K\u00e2mil fi\u2019t-t\u00e2r\u00eeh <\/i>(I-X),<\/i> thk. \u00d6mer Ab\u00fcssel\u00e2m Tedm\u00fcr\u00ee, Beyrut: D\u00e2ru\u2019l-Kit\u00e2bi\u2019l-Arab\u00ee, 1417\/1997, II, 263.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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[6]<\/a> Bkz. N\u00fcveyr\u00ee, Nih\u00e2yet\u00fc\u2019l-ereb, <\/i>XIX, 135-143; Fayda, \u201cEb\u00fb Bekir\u201d mad., D\u0130A,<\/i> X,\u00a0104.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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[7]<\/a> \u0130bn Kes\u00eer, Eb\u00fc\u2019l-Fid\u00e2 \u0130smail b. \u00d6mer el-Kure\u015f\u00ee el-Basr\u00ee, s\u00fcmme\u2019d-D\u0131me\u015fk\u00ee (v. 774\/1373), el-Bid\u00e2ye ve\u2019n-nih\u00e2ye <\/i>(I-XI), thk. Abdullah b. Abdilmuhsin et-T\u00fcrk\u00ee, D\u00e2ru Hecer, 1424\/2003, XI, 328-331; Sall\u00e2b\u00ee, Eb\u00fb Bekir es-S\u0131dd\u00eek, <\/i>s. 22.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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[8]<\/a> \u0130bn As\u00e2kir, XXX, 128; S\u00fcy\u00fbt\u00ee, T\u00e2r\u00eehu\u2019l-hulef\u00e2, <\/i>s. 111.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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[9]<\/a> H\u00e2kim, III, 543\/6021; Beyhak\u00ee, Ahmed b. Huseyn b. Ali b. Musa Husrevcird\u00ee Horas\u00e2n\u00ee, Eb\u00fb Bekir (v. 458\/1066), es-S\u00fcnen\u00fc\u2019l-k\u00fcbr\u00e2 <\/i>(I-X),<\/i> thk. Muhammed Abd\u00fclkadir At\u00e2, Beyrut: D\u00e2ru\u2019l-K\u00fct\u00fcbi\u2019l-\u0130lmiyye, 1424\/2003, IX, 167\/18191; Sall\u00e2b\u00ee, Eb\u00fb Bekir es-S\u0131dd\u00eek, <\/i>s. 22.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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[10]<\/a> \u0130bn Abdilberr, Eb\u00fb \u00d6mer Cem\u00e2l\u00fcdd\u00een Y\u00fbsuf b. Abdill\u00e2h b. Muhammed b.\u00a0Abdilberr en-Nemer\u00ee (v. 463\/1071), el-\u0130st\u00ee\u00e2b f\u00ee ma\u02bbrifeti\u2019l-ash\u00e2b <\/i>(I-IV), thk. Ali Muhammed el-Bec\u00e2v\u00ee, Beyrut: D\u00e2ru\u2019l-C\u00eel, 1412\/1992, III, 1366-1367; \u0130bn As\u00e2kir, XXXIX, 418; \u0130bn\u00fc\u2019l-Es\u00eer, Eb\u00fc\u2019l-Hasen Ali b. Ebi\u2019l-Kerem Muhammed b. Muhammed b. Abdilkerim b. Abdilvahid e\u015f-\u015eeyb\u00e2n\u00ee el-Cezer\u00ee, \u0130zz\u00fcddin (v. 630\/1233), \u00dcsd\u00fc\u2019l-\u011f\u00e2be f\u00ee ma\u02bbrifeti\u2019s-sah\u00e2be <\/i>(I-VIII), thk. Ali Muhammed Muavviz – \u00c2dil Ahmed Abd\u00fclmevcud, D\u00e2ru\u2019l-K\u00fct\u00fcbi\u2019l-\u0130lmiyye, 1415\/1994, V, 97; Mizz\u00ee, Eb\u00fc\u2019l-Hacc\u00e2c Cem\u00e2l\u00fcdd\u00een Y\u00fbsuf b. Abdirrahm\u00e2n b. Y\u00fbsuf (v. 742\/1341), Tehz\u00eeb\u00fc\u2019l-Kem\u00e2l f\u00ee esm\u00e2i\u2019r-ric\u00e2l <\/i>(I-XXXV), <\/i>thk. Be\u015f\u015f\u00e2r Avv\u00e2d Ma\u02bbr\u00fbf, Beyrut: M\u00fcesseset\u00fc\u2019r-Ris\u00e2le, 1400\/1980, XXIV, 542-543.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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[11]<\/a> M\u00e2lik\u00a0b. Enes\u00a0b. M\u00e2lik\u00a0b. Eb\u00ee \u00c2mir el-Asbah\u00ee el-Yemen\u00ee, Eb\u00fb Abdill\u00e2h, (v. 179\/795), el-Muvatta\u2019<\/i> (I-II), n\u015fr. Muhammed Fuad Abd\u00fclbaki, \u0130stanbul 1992, Kit\u00e2bu\u2019l-Akdiye, 33.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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[12]<\/a> Sall\u00e2b\u00ee, Eb\u00fb Bekir es-S\u0131dd\u00eek, <\/i>s. 23.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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[13]<\/a> Sall\u00e2b\u00ee, Eb\u00fb Bekir es-S\u0131dd\u00eek, <\/i>s. 24.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Eb\u00fb Bekir (r.a) d\u00f6rt evlilik yapm\u0131\u015f ve bunlardan alt\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fu d\u00fcnyaya gelmi\u015ftir. \u0130lk evlili\u011fini Kuteyle bint Abd\u00fcluzz\u00e2 adl\u0131 bir han\u0131mla yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu evlilikten o\u011flu Abdullah ile k\u0131z\u0131 Esm\u00e2 do\u011fdu. Eb\u00fb… <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[691],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14878","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-hzebubekirinkuranahizmetlerivetefsirdekiyeri"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3G27m-3RY","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14878","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14878"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14878\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14879,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14878\/revisions\/14879"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14878"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14878"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14878"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}