Meysere, \u015eam seyahati esn\u00e2s\u0131nda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc h\u00e2rikul\u00e2de h\u00e2diseleri, Peygamber Efendimiz\u2019in s\u00fbret ve s\u00eeret g\u00fczelliklerini ve m\u00fcstesn\u00e2 h\u00e2llerini d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fte Hz. H\u00e2t\u00eece\u2019ye tafsil\u00e2tl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde anlatt\u0131. Bunun \u00fczerine Hat\u00eece v\u00e2lidemizde \u00c2lemlerin Efendisi ile evlenme iste\u011fi h\u00e2s\u0131l oldu.<\/p>\n
Hz. H\u00e2t\u00eece\u2019nin arkada\u015f\u0131 Nef\u00eese bint-i \u00dcmeyye<\/b>, bu izdiv\u00e2c\u0131n nas\u0131l geli\u015fti\u011fini \u015f\u00f6yle anlat\u0131r:<\/p>\n
\u201cHat\u00eece bint-i Huveylid, becerikli, gayretli, sa\u011flam karakterli ve \u015ferefli bir han\u0131m idi. Kavminin erkekleri onunla evlenmek i\u00e7in can atarlard\u0131. L\u00e2kin Hz. H\u00e2t\u00eece, Fahr-i K\u00e2in\u00e2t (s.a.v) Efendimiz\u2019in karakter ve \u015fahsiyetine hayrand\u0131. Hz. Muhammed (a.s) \u015eam tic\u00e2retinden d\u00f6nd\u00fckten sonra Hat\u00eece, kendisiyle evlenmek isteyip istemeyece\u011fini anlamak maksad\u0131yla beni O\u2019na g\u00f6nderdi:<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u2212Ey Muhammed! Sen ni\u00e7in evlenmiyorsun?\u00bb diye sordum.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u2212Madd\u00ee imk\u00e2n\u0131m yokken nas\u0131l evlenebilirim?\u00bb<\/i> dedi.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u2212E\u011fer imk\u00e2n\u0131n olsa mal, \u015feref ve g\u00fczellik s\u00e2hibi bir kimse ile evlenir misin?\u00bb diye sordum.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u2212Kim bu han\u0131m?\u00bb<\/i> dedi.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u2212Hat\u00eece!\u00bb dedim.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u2212Sence bu m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fc?\u00bb<\/i> dedi.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u2212Oras\u0131n\u0131 bana b\u0131rak!\u00bb dedim.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u2212O h\u00e2lde, ben de senin dedi\u011fini yapar\u0131m!\u00bb<\/i> dedi.<\/p>\n
Hemen gidip durumu Hat\u00eece\u2019ye bildirdim.\u201d (\u0130bn-i Sa\u2019d, I, 131)<\/p>\n
Hz. Hat\u00eece, Nef\u00eese H\u00e2tun\u2019un m\u00fcjdesi \u00fczerine Ras\u00fbl-i Ekrem (s.a.v) Efendimiz\u2019e izdivac teklifinde bulundu. \u00c2lemlerin Efendisi bu durumu amcas\u0131 Eb\u00fb T\u00e2lib<\/b>\u2019e haber verdi. Eb\u00fb T\u00e2lib, Hz. Hat\u00eece\u2019nin babas\u0131 Huveylid bin Esed<\/b>\u2019den istedi. O da k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 Efendimiz (s.a.v) ile evlendirdi.<\/p>\n
Baz\u0131 riv\u00e2yetlerde babas\u0131n\u0131n daha evvel vefat etti\u011fi, bu sebeple amcas\u0131 Amr bin Esed<\/b>\u2019in evlendirdi\u011fi s\u00f6ylenmektedir ancak \u0130bn-i Hacer babas\u0131 Huveylid bin Esed\u2019in o vakit hayatta oldu\u011funu ve k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 onun evlendirdi\u011fini teyit eder. (Fethu\u2019l-B\u00e2r\u00ee,<\/i> VII, 134)<\/p>\n
Fahr-i K\u00e2in\u00e2t Efendimiz (s.a.v), Hz. Hat\u00eece\u2019ye mehir olarak 20 gen\u00e7 deve verdiler.[1]<\/sup><\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n \u00c2lemlere Rahmet Efendimiz (s.a.v), evlendiklerinde 25 ya\u015flar\u0131nda bulunuyorlard\u0131. T\u00e2lihli ve as\u00eel kad\u0131n Hz. Hat\u00eece (r.a) ise, \u0130bn-i \u0130sh\u00e2k\u2019\u0131n zay\u0131f bir rivayetine g\u00f6re 28[2]<\/a>, V\u00e2k\u0131d\u00ee\u2019nin rivayetine g\u00f6re 40[3]<\/a> ya\u015f\u0131nda idi. Hz. Hat\u00eece v\u00e2lidemiz, mal\u0131 ve can\u0131 ile Peygamber Efendimiz\u2019e yeni bir g\u00fc\u00e7 kayna\u011f\u0131 oldu.[4]<\/sup><\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n Hat\u00eece (r.a)\u2019n\u0131n k\u00fcnyesi \u00dcmm\u00fc Hind<\/b> idi. Bir o\u011flu ve bir k\u0131z\u0131 vard\u0131.[5]<\/a><\/p>\n Fahr-i K\u00e2in\u00e2t Efendimiz (s.a.v) hicret edinceye kadar Hz. Hat\u00eece\u2019nin evinde oturdular. Hicret ettiklerinde o evi Ak\u00eel bin Eb\u00ee T\u00e2lib ald\u0131.[6]<\/a><\/p>\n All\u00e2h Ras\u00fbl\u00fc (s.a.v):<\/p>\n \u201c(Zaman\u0131n\u0131n)<\/i> en hay\u0131rl\u0131 kad\u0131n\u0131 Meryem bint-i \u0130mr\u00e2n<\/b>\u2019d\u0131r. (Bu zaman\u0131n)<\/i> en hay\u0131rl\u0131 kad\u0131n\u0131 ise Hat\u00eece bint-i Huveylid<\/b>\u2019dir.\u201d <\/i>buyurmu\u015flard\u0131r. (Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, Men\u00e2k\u0131bu\u2019l-Ens\u00e2r, 20; M\u00fcslim, Fed\u00e2ilu\u2019s-Sah\u00e2be, 69)<\/p>\n Ras\u00fblull\u00e2h (s.a.v)\u2019in bu izdiv\u00e2c\u0131, O\u2019nun nefs\u00e2n\u00ee arzular\u0131na meyleden bir kimse olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, hatt\u00e2 bunlara hi\u00e7 de\u011fer vermedi\u011fini a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a ortaya koymaktad\u0131r. \u015eayet \u00f6yle olsayd\u0131, All\u00e2h Ras\u00fbl\u00fc\u2019n\u00fcn kendinden ya\u015f\u00e7a b\u00fcy\u00fck dul ve \u00e7ocuklu bir han\u0131mla de\u011fil, daha gen\u00e7 bir kimseyle evlenmeleri \u00eec\u00e2b ederdi. Fakat Fahr-i K\u00e2in\u00e2t Efendimiz (s.a.v), evlenece\u011fi kad\u0131nda gen\u00e7lik, g\u00fczellik gibi f\u00e2n\u00ee hus\u00fbsiyetler yerine; \u015feref, faz\u00eelet ve g\u00fczel ahl\u00e2k gibi ulv\u00ee hasletler aram\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. Nitekim \u015ferefli bir \u00e2ileye mensup olan Hz. Hat\u00eece validemize, y\u00fcksek ahl\u00e2k\u0131 sebebiyle \u0130sl\u00e2m\u2019dan \u00f6nce \u201cAf\u00eefe\u201d<\/b> ve \u201cT\u00e2hire\u201d <\/b>denirdi. \u0130sl\u00e2m\u2019dan sonra da \u201cHat\u00eecet\u00fc\u2019l-K\u00fcbr\u00e2\u201d<\/b> denilmi\u015ftir.[7]<\/sup><\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n Hz. Hat\u00eece hayatta iken Allah Ras\u00fbl\u00fc (s.a.v) ba\u015fka bir han\u0131mla evlenmedi\u011fi gibi c\u00e2riye de edinmemi\u015ftir. \u0130steseydi \u00f6rfe uygun olarak ba\u015fka han\u0131mlarla da evlenebilir, istedi\u011fi kadar c\u00e2riye de edinirdi. O zaman bunu kimse garip kar\u015f\u0131lamazd\u0131. Ama O (s.a.v) Hz. Hat\u00eece\u2019den sonra yine ya\u015fl\u0131 bir han\u0131m olan Sevde<\/b> (r.a) v\u00e2lidemizle evlenmi\u015f, ancak Med\u00eene\u2019de 55 ya\u015f\u0131ndan sonra d\u00een\u00ee ve siy\u00e2s\u00ee sebeplerle birden fazla evlilik yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. H\u00e2lbuki insan ancak 20 ile 50 ya\u015f\u0131 aras\u0131nda daha fazla evlenme arzusu duyar, ondan sonra de\u011fil! O devirde, 25 ya\u015f\u0131na gelmi\u015f bir delikanl\u0131n\u0131n iffetli kalabilmesi ve her taraf\u0131nda dalgalan\u0131p duran fasit cereyanlara kap\u0131lmamas\u0131 da ayr\u0131 bir mucizedir.<\/p>\n Ras\u00fblullah (s.a.v) Efendimiz\u2019in daha sonra yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 evliliklerin sebep ve hikmetlerine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, her biri, Allah Ras\u00fbl\u00fc\u2019n\u00fcn b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne, y\u00fcceli\u011fine ve ahl\u00e2k\u0131n\u0131n kem\u00e2line olan \u00eem\u00e2n\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 art\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n Hz. Hat\u00eece (r.a), b\u00fcy\u00fck bir adam\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 kem\u00e2le erdiren kad\u0131na en g\u00fczel misaldir.<\/p>\n Vahiy mele\u011fi Cebr\u00e2il<\/b> (a.s) bir g\u00fcn Ras\u00fbl-i Ekrem Efendimiz ile sohbet ediyordu. Hz. Hatice<\/b>\u2019nin elinde bir kap yemekle gelmekte oldu\u011funu haber verdi. Sonra da \u015funlar\u0131 s\u00f6yledi:<\/p>\n \u201c\u2013Hatice yan\u0131na geldi\u011fi zaman, ona Rabbinden ve benden sel\u00e2m s\u00f6yle! Onu, Cennet\u2019te inciden yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir sarayla m\u00fcjdele! Orada ne g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fc vard\u0131r ne de yorgunluk.\u201d (Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, Men\u00e2k\u0131b\u00fc\u2019l-Ens\u00e2r, 20)<\/p>\n Hz. Hatice<\/b> (r.a) bu ilah\u00ee sel\u00e2ma \u015f\u00f6yle mukabele etmi\u015ftir:<\/p>\n \u201cO (\u015fan\u0131 y\u00fcce Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2) Sel\u00e2m\u2019\u0131n kendisidir, sel\u00e2m O\u2019ndand\u0131r, Cebr\u00e2il\u2019e de selam olsun, Ey Allah\u2019\u0131n Ras\u00fbl\u00fc, sana da Allah\u2019\u0131n sel\u00e2m\u0131, rahmeti ve bereketi olsun!\u201d (\u0130bn-i Hi\u015f\u00e2m, I, 259-260; \u0130bn-i As\u00e2kir, T\u00e2r\u00eehu D\u0131me\u015fk,<\/i> c. 70, s. 118)<\/p>\n \u00c2limler bu cevaptan hareketle Hz. Hatice\u2019nin derin bir anlay\u0131\u015f sahibi oldu\u011funu ifade ederler. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah\u2019tan gelen selama mukabele ederken \u201cSelam Allah\u2019a olsun\u201d dememi\u015f, aksine \u201cAllah sel\u00e2m\u0131n kendisidir\u201d demi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n Hz. Hat\u00eece (r.a) Hicret\u2019ten 3 sene evvel, \u0130sr\u00e2 ve M\u00eer\u00e2c h\u00e2disesinden \u00f6nce vefat etti.<\/p>\n Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe<\/b> (r.a) \u015f\u00f6yle anlat\u0131yor:<\/p>\n Ras\u00fblullah (s.a.v) Efendimiz\u2019in han\u0131mlar\u0131ndan hi\u00e7birini Hatice\u2019yi k\u0131skand\u0131\u011f\u0131m kadar k\u0131skanmad\u0131m. \u00dcstelik onu hi\u00e7 g\u00f6rmedim. Fakat Ras\u00fbl-i Ekrem (s.a.v) onu s\u0131k s\u0131k zikrederlerdi. Bir koyun kesip etini par\u00e7alad\u0131klar\u0131nda, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman Hatice\u2019nin dostlar\u0131na g\u00f6nderirlerdi. Bazen (dayanamay\u0131p):<\/p>\n \u201c\u2013Sanki d\u00fcnyada Hatice\u2019den ba\u015fka kad\u0131n kalmad\u0131!\u201d derdim.<\/p>\n Ras\u00fblullah Efendimiz (s.a.v):<\/p>\n \u201c\u2013O \u015f\u00f6yle \u015f\u00f6yleydi\u201d<\/i> diye g\u00fczel vas\u0131flar\u0131n\u0131 sayarlar ve \u201c\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m ondan oldu\u201d<\/i> buyururlard\u0131. (M\u00fcslim, Fed\u00e2il\u00fc\u2019s-Sah\u00e2be 74-76)<\/p>\n [1]<\/a> \u0130bn-i Hi\u015f\u00e2m, I, 206; \u0130bn-i Es\u00eer, \u00dcsd\u00fc\u2019l-G\u00e2be,<\/i> I, 23.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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