Bir kimse Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe\u2019ye gelerek, satt\u0131\u011f\u0131 veya ba\u011f\u0131\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u015fey hususunda ye\u011feni Abdullah b. Z\u00fcbeyr\u2019in \u201cVallahi \u00c2i\u015fe ya bu i\u015ften vazge\u00e7er veya ben onun b\u00f6yle davranmas\u0131na m\u00e2ni olurum\u201d dedi\u011fini haber vermi\u015fti. Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe (r.a) bu haberi getiren adama:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u2013O b\u00f6yle mi dedi?\u201d diye sordu. Oradakiler de:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u2013Evet, b\u00f6yle s\u00f6yledi\u201d dediler. Bunun \u00fczerine Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u2013Allah\u2019a ada\u011f\u0131m olsun, \u00f6l\u00fcnceye kadar bir daha Abdullah b. Z\u00fcbeyr ile konu\u015fmayaca\u011f\u0131m\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe\u2019nin darg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 epeyce uzay\u0131nca Abdullah b. Z\u00fcbeyr (r.a) araya \u015fefaat\u00e7iler koyarak teyzesinin kendini affetmesini istedi. Fakat \u00c2i\u015fe (r.a) \u201cVallahi ben onun hakk\u0131nda kimsenin arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmem, ada\u011f\u0131m\u0131 da bozmam\u201d dedi. Bu darg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n hayli uzad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6ren Abdullah (r.a) Z\u00fchre O\u011fullar\u0131\u2019ndan Misver b. Mahreme ile Abdurrahman b. Esved b. Abdiyeg\u00fbs\u2019a konuyu a\u00e7arak:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u2013Allah a\u015fk\u0131na beni teyzem Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe\u2019nin yan\u0131na g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcp bar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131n. Benimle ilgiyi kesip konu\u015fmamak \u00fczere adak adamas\u0131 hel\u00e2l de\u011fildir\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Misver ile Abdurrahman (r.a) onun ric\u00e2s\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131rmay\u0131p Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe\u2019nin evine geldiler ve:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u2013Allah\u2019\u0131n sel\u00e2m\u0131 ve bereketleri \u00fczerine olsun, girebilir miyiz?\u201d diye izin istediler. Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe de:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u2013Girin\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u2013Hepimiz mi girelim?\u201d diye sordular. Yanlar\u0131nda Abdullah\u2019\u0131n oldu\u011funu bilmedi\u011fi i\u00e7in o da:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u2013Evet, hepiniz girin\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Abdullah b. Z\u00fcbeyr de onlarla birlikte i\u00e7eri girdi, perdenin arkas\u0131na ge\u00e7erek teyzesinin boynuna sar\u0131ld\u0131 ve kendisini afetmesini isteyerek a\u011flad\u0131. Misver ile Abdurrahman da \u201cAllah a\u015fk\u0131na onu affet\u201d diye yalvard\u0131lar ve:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u2013Pekiyi bildi\u011fin gibi Ras\u00fblullah (s.a.v)k\u00fcs durmay\u0131 yasaklam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131n din karde\u015fiyle \u00fc\u00e7 g\u00fcnden fazla darg\u0131n durmas\u0131 hel\u00e2l de\u011fildir\u201d diyerek onunla bar\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 istediler. Hatalar\u0131 affetmenin \u00f6nemi, akraba ile ilgiyi kesmenin k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc konusunda o kadar \u00e7ok \u015fey s\u00f6ylediler ki nihayet Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe onlara ada\u011f\u0131ndan s\u00f6z ederek a\u011flamaya ba\u015flad\u0131:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u2013Ben konu\u015fmamak \u00fczere adak adad\u0131m, ada\u011f\u0131 bozmak b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00fcnaht\u0131r\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mahreme ile Abdurrahman (r.a) onun g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc yapmak \u00fczere o kadar \u00e7ok \u015fey s\u00f6ylediler ki sonunda Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe (r.a) Abdullah ile konu\u015ftu. Ada\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bozdu\u011fu i\u00e7in de k\u0131rk k\u00f6leyi \u00e2zad etti. Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe sonraki g\u00fcnlerde bu ada\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131k s\u0131k hat\u0131rlay\u0131p a\u011flar, g\u00f6zlerinden akan ya\u015flar ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc \u0131slat\u0131rd\u0131.[1]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe (r.a) Abdullah\u2019\u0131n infak\u0131na m\u00e2ni olmak istemesine k\u0131zm\u0131\u015ft\u0131, z\u00eer\u00e2 o c\u00f6mert bir insand\u0131. Daha sonra yeminini tutmakla ye\u011fenini affetmek aras\u0131nda kal\u0131nca daha faz\u00eeletli olan\u0131 yapt\u0131 ve yemini i\u00e7in keffaret verdi. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Ras\u00fblullah (s.a.v) \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cBir \u015fey hakk\u0131nda yemin eden ki\u015fi, sonra takv\u00e2ya ondan daha uygun bir \u015fey g\u00f6r\u00fcrse, (yemininden vazge\u00e7ip) takv\u00e2ya uygun olan\u0131 yaps\u0131n!\u201d<\/em>[2]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n Abdullah b. Z\u00fcbeyr (r.a) teyzesinin yan\u0131na Z\u00fchre O\u011fullar\u0131\u2019ndan bir tak\u0131m insanlarla gitmi\u015fti. Z\u00fchre O\u011fullar\u0131 Allah Ras\u00fbl\u00fc\u2019n\u00fcn annesi Hz. \u00c2mine\u2019nin kabilesi idi. Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe (r.a) ise Peygamber Efendimiz\u2019e yak\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131 sebebiyle onlara kar\u015f\u0131 son derece \u015fefkat ve merhametle davran\u0131r ve ikramlarda bulunurdu.[3]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n [1]<\/a> Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, Edeb 62.<\/p>\n\n\n\n [2]<\/a> M\u00fcslim, \u201cEym\u00e2n\u201d, 15.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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