\u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme (r.a) 597 senesinde do\u011fmu\u015ftur. As\u0131l ismi Hind\u2019dir. Babas\u0131 Eb\u00fb \u00dcmeyye\u2019nin ismi Huzeyfe veya S\u00fcheyl\u2019dir. Kurey\u015f\u2019in me\u015fhur c\u00f6mertlerinden oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in Z\u00e2d\u00fc\u2019r-R\u00e2kib (yolcunun az\u0131\u011f\u0131) diye lakablanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Annesi \u00c2tike binti \u00c2mir b. Reb\u00ee\u02bba b. Abd\u00fclmuttalib\u2019dir. Peygamber Efendimiz\u2019in halas\u0131n\u0131n kocas\u0131n\u0131n k\u0131z\u0131d\u0131r. Babas\u0131n\u0131n day\u0131lar\u0131 Abdullah ve Z\u00fcheyr, Allah Ras\u00fbl\u00fc\u2019n\u00fcn halas\u0131n\u0131n o\u011fullar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Amm\u00e2r b. Y\u00e2sir (r.a) \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme validemizin s\u00fctkarde\u015fiydi. \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme (r.a) H\u00e2lid b. Velid\u2019in de amcas\u0131n\u0131n k\u0131z\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme v\u00e2lidemiz Peygamberimizden evvel Eb\u00fb Seleme<\/em> ile evli idi. Eb\u00fb Seleme (r.a) Peygamber Efendimiz\u2019in halas\u0131n\u0131n o\u011flu, \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme validemizin de amcas\u0131n\u0131n o\u011fludur. Allah Ras\u00fbl\u00fc (s.a.v) ile Eb\u00fb Seleme (r.a) ayn\u0131 zamanda s\u00fctkarde\u015f idiler. \u0130kisini de Eb\u00fb Leheb\u2019in c\u00e2riyesi S\u00fcveybe h\u00e2tun emzirmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme validemiz kocas\u0131yla birlikte Habe\u015fistan\u2019a hicret etmi\u015flerdi. Oradan d\u00f6n\u00fcp Med\u00eene\u2019ye hicret ettiler. Kocas\u0131, kendisi ve o\u011flu Med\u00eene\u2019ye ilk hicret eden kimselerdir. Eb\u00fb Seleme (r.a) hicretin 4. senesinde vefat etti. Geriye Seleme, \u00d6mer, Rukiye (D\u00fcrre) ve Zeyneb isimlerinde d\u00f6rt \u00e7ocuk b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme (r.a) kad\u0131nlar\u0131n en g\u00fczellerindendi. Ras\u00fblullah (s.a.v) onunla Uhud\u2019dan sonra hicretin 4. senesinde \u015eevv\u00e2l ay\u0131nda evlendi (Mart 626). Bu esnada \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme v\u00e2lidemiz 29 ya\u015flar\u0131nda idi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hudeybiye, Hayber, T\u00e2if seferlerine ve Ved\u00e2 Hacc\u0131\u2019na kat\u0131ld\u0131. H\u00e2f\u0131z idi, pek\u00e7ok \u00e2yeti Peygamber Efendimiz\u2019den ilk duyan o oluyordu. Annelerimiz i\u00e7inde Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe\u2019den sonra en fazla hadis rivayet eden kimseydi, 378 hadis rivayet etmi\u015fti. \u0130lme olan merak\u0131 sebebiyle Peygamber Efendimiz\u2019e sorular sormu\u015f ve pek\u00e7ok meselenin ayd\u0131nlanmas\u0131na vesile olmu\u015ftur. \u0130sabetli g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri sebebiyle Ras\u00fblullah (s.a.v) kendisiyle isti\u015fare ederdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 62\/681 senesinde 84 ya\u015f\u0131nda Med\u00eene\u2019de vefat etti ve Cennet\u00fc\u2019l-Bak\u012b\u02bbe defnedildi.[1]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u058e<\/p>\n\n\n\n Eb\u00fb Seleme Abdullah b. Abdulesed (r.a) zevcesi \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme ile o\u011flu Seleme\u2019yi devesine bindirip Medine\u2019ye g\u00f6t\u00fcrmek isterken \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme\u2019nin men\u00adsup bulundu\u011fu Mug\u00eere o\u011fullar\u0131n\u0131n erkekleri g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f, \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme\u2019yi yabanc\u0131 beldelerde gezdirip dola\u015ft\u0131rmas\u0131na m\u00fcsaade edemeyeceklerini s\u00f6yleyerek elinden ald\u0131lar. Onlara k\u0131zan ve Eb\u00fb Seleme\u2019nin kabile halk\u0131 olan Abdulesed o\u011fullar\u0131 da Seleme\u2019yi \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme\u2019ye vermediler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme (r.a) bu ac\u0131 h\u00e2diseyi \u015f\u00f6yle anlat\u0131r:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cMug\u00eere o\u011fullar\u0131 beni yanlar\u0131nda hapsettiler. Kocam Eb\u00fb Seleme ise Medine\u2019ye gitti. B\u00f6ylece benimle kocam\u0131n ve o\u011flumun aras\u0131n\u0131 ay\u0131rd\u0131lar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bir y\u0131l veya bir y\u0131la yak\u0131n bir m\u00fcddet her sabah Ebtah\u2019a \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p oturur, ak\u015fama kadar a\u011flar durur\u00addum. Mug\u00eere o\u011fullar\u0131ndan amcao\u011fullar\u0131ndan biri bir g\u00fcn yan\u0131ma u\u011frad\u0131. H\u00e2limi g\u00f6r\u00fcnce bana ac\u0131d\u0131. Mug\u00eere o\u011fullar\u0131na:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2018\u2012Siz \u015fu zavall\u0131 kad\u0131nca\u011f\u0131z\u0131 kocas\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131na daha ne diye g\u00f6ndermezsiniz! Onun hem kocas\u0131yla hem de o\u011fluyla aras\u0131n\u0131 ay\u0131rd\u0131n\u0131z\u2019 dedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bunun \u00fczerine Mug\u00eere o\u011fullar\u0131 bana:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2018\u2012\u0130stersen git kocana kavu\u015f\u2019 dediler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Abdulesed o\u011fullar\u0131 da o\u011flumu bana verince deveme binip o\u011flumu kuca\u011f\u0131ma ald\u0131m ve Medine\u2019deki kocam\u0131n yan\u0131na gitmek \u00fczere yola \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m. Yan\u0131mda hi\u00e7bir Allah\u2019\u0131n kulu yoktu. Kendi kendime \u2018Beni kocam\u0131n yan\u0131na ula\u015f\u0131ncaya kadar g\u00f6t\u00fcrecek bir kimseye rastlayabilir miyim acaba?\u2019 diye yola d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm. Ten\u02bbim\u2019de bulundu\u011fum s\u0131rada idi ki Abduddar o\u011fullar\u0131ndan Osman b. Talha\u2019ya[2]<\/a> rastlad\u0131m. Bana:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2018\u2012Ey Eb\u00fb \u00dcmeyye\u2019nin k\u0131z\u0131, nereye gidiyorsun?\u2019 diye sordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2018\u2012Medine\u2019deki kocam\u0131n yan\u0131na gitmek istiyorum\u2019 dedim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2018\u2012Senin yan\u0131nda gidecek bir kimse yok mu?\u2019 diye sordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2018\u2012Yok vallahi, ancak Allah var, bir de \u015fu yavrum\u2019 dedim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2018\u2012Vallahi seni bu yolda yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakmak do\u011fru olmaz\u2019 dedi ve hemen devenin yular\u0131n\u0131 tutup benim\u00adle birlikte h\u0131zl\u0131 h\u0131zl\u0131 y\u00fcr\u00fcmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Vallahi Arap erkekleri i\u00e7inde ondan daha sayg\u0131l\u0131 ve n\u00e2zik bir yol arkada\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6rmedim. Bir konak yerine var\u0131nca devemi \u00e7\u00f6kt\u00fcr\u00fcr, ben ininceye kadar arkas\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6n\u00fcp benden uzak\u00adla\u015f\u0131r, ben deveden indikten sonra gelip deveyi g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr, semerini indirip onu bir a\u011faca ba\u011flar, kendisi de gidip bir a\u011fac\u0131n alt\u0131na uzan\u0131rd\u0131. Hareket zaman\u0131 gelince kalkar, tekrar semeri devenin s\u0131rt\u0131na koyar, deveyi yan\u0131ma getirip \u00e7\u00f6kt\u00fcrd\u00fckten sonra arkas\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6nerek bana \u2018Haydi bin\u2019 derdi. Ben bindikten sonra gelir, devenin yular\u0131ndan tutarak g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrd\u00fc. Beni Medine\u2019ye ula\u015ft\u0131r\u0131ncaya kadar hep b\u00f6yle davrand\u0131. Kuba\u2019da Amr b. Avf o\u011fullar\u0131n\u0131n k\u00f6y\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcnce:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2018\u2012Senin kocan i\u015fte bu k\u00f6ydedir, art\u0131k Allah\u2019\u0131n bereketi \u00fczere oraya gir\u2019 dedikten sonra Mekke\u2019ye d\u00f6nmek \u00fczere yan\u0131mdan ayr\u0131ld\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ben \u0130sl\u00e2m\u2019da Eb\u00fb Seleme ailesinin u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131 musibet kadar hi\u00e7bir ev halk\u0131n\u0131n musibete u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmiyorum. Ben hi\u00e7bir zaman Osman b. Talha\u2019dan daha ikraml\u0131 ve sayg\u0131l\u0131 bir yol arkada\u015f\u0131 da g\u00f6rmedim.\u201d[3]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n [1]<\/a> Bkz. Muhibbudd\u00een et-Taber\u00ee, es-Simtu\u2019s-sem\u00een<\/em>, 133, 139, 156; T\u0130A<\/em>, \u201c\u00dcmm\u00fc Seleme\u201d, 8\/257-258.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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