{"id":17507,"date":"2025-09-23T18:53:05","date_gmt":"2025-09-23T16:53:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/?p=17507"},"modified":"2025-09-23T18:53:05","modified_gmt":"2025-09-23T16:53:05","slug":"evlilik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/?p=17507","title":{"rendered":"Evlilik"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Hz. Hat\u00eece\u2019nin k\u00fcnyesi \u00dcmm\u00fc Hind<\/em> idi, daha sonra \u00dcmm\u00fc\u2019l-K\u0101s\u0131m <\/em>k\u00fcnyesini ald\u0131. Annesi F\u00e2t\u0131ma binti Z\u00e2ide b. C\u00fcndeb el-\u00c2miriyye\u2019dir. Soyu dedelerinden Kusay\u2019da Ras\u00fblullah (s.a.v)\u2019in soyuyla birle\u015fir. Daha \u00f6nce Eb\u00fb H\u00e2le Hind b. Z\u00fcr\u00e2re et-Tem\u00eem\u00ee ile evli idi. Bu evlili\u011finden Hind isimli o\u011flu d\u00fcnyaya geldi. Eb\u00fb H\u00e2le\u2019nin \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnden sonra At\u00eek b. \u00c2bid el-Mahz\u00fbm\u00ee ile evlenmi\u015f ve ondan da yine Hind (\u00dcmm\u00fc Muhammed) isminde bir k\u0131z\u0131 oldu. \u0130kinci kocas\u0131n\u0131n vefat\u0131ndan sonra soyu, \u015ferefi, g\u00fczelli\u011fi ve zenginli\u011fi sebebiyle pek \u00e7ok ileri gelen Mekkeli onunla evlenmek istemi\u015f ama o bu tekliflerin hi\u00e7birini kabul etmemi\u015ftir. Hz. Hat\u00eece (r.a) \u00e7e\u015fitli b\u00f6lgelere kervanlar g\u00f6ndererek ticaret yap\u0131yordu. 10 Ramazan (23 Ocak) 617\u2019de Mekke\u2019de vefat etti. Hac\u00fbn (Cennet\u00fc\u2019l-Mu\u02bball\u00e2) kabristan\u0131na defnedildi. Onu kabrine bizzat Ras\u00fblullah (s.a.v) indirdi.[1]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u058e<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hz. H\u00e2t\u00eece\u2019nin arkada\u015f\u0131 Nef\u00eese bint-i M\u00fcnye<\/strong> \u015f\u00f6yle anlat\u0131r:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHat\u00eece bint-i Huveylid, becerikli, gayretli, sa\u011flam karakterli ve \u015ferefli bir han\u0131m idi. Kavminin erkekleri onunla evlenmek i\u00e7in can atarlard\u0131. L\u00e2kin Hz. H\u00e2t\u00eece, Muhammed\u00fc\u2019l-Em\u00een\u2019in karakter ve \u015fahsiyetine hayrand\u0131. Muhammed (a.s) \u015eam tic\u00e2retinden d\u00f6nd\u00fckten sonra Hat\u00eece, kendisiyle evlenmek isteyip istemeyece\u011fini anlamak maksad\u0131yla beni ona g\u00f6nderdi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2018\u2212Ey Muhammed! Sen ni\u00e7in evlenmiyorsun?\u2019 diye sordum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2018\u2212Madd\u00ee imk\u00e2n\u0131m yokken nas\u0131l evlenebilirim?\u2019<\/em> dedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2018\u2212E\u011fer imk\u00e2n\u0131n olsa mal, \u015feref ve g\u00fczellik s\u00e2hibi bir kimse ile evlenir misin?\u2019 diye sordum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2018\u2212Kim bu han\u0131m?\u2019<\/em> dedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2018\u2212Hat\u00eece!\u2019 dedim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2018\u2212Sence bu m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fc?\u2019<\/em> dedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2018\u2212Oras\u0131n\u0131 bana b\u0131rak\u2019 dedim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2018\u2212O h\u00e2lde ben de senin dedi\u011fini yapar\u0131m\u2019<\/em> dedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hemen gidip durumu Hat\u00eece\u2019ye bildirdim.\u201d[2]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hz. Hat\u00eece, Nef\u00eese H\u00e2tun\u2019un m\u00fcjdesi \u00fczerine Efendimiz\u2019e izdivac teklifinde bulundu. \u00c2lemlerin Efendisi bu durumu amcas\u0131 Eb\u00fb T\u00e2lib\u2019e haber verdi. Eb\u00fb T\u00e2lib, Hz. Hat\u00eece\u2019yi babas\u0131 Huveylid b. Esed\u2019den istedi. O da k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 Efendimiz (s.a.v) ile evlendirdi.[3]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ras\u00fblullah (s.a.v) Hz. Hat\u00eece\u2019ye mehir olarak 20 gen\u00e7 deve[4]<\/a> ve 12 bu\u00e7uk uk\u0131yye verdi.[5]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Evlendiklerinde Ras\u00fblullah (s.a.v) 25 ya\u015flar\u0131nda Hz. Hat\u00eece ise \u0130bn \u0130sh\u00e2k\u2019\u0131n zay\u0131f bir rivayetine g\u00f6re 28,[6]<\/a> V\u00e2k\u0131d\u00ee\u2019nin rivayetine g\u00f6re 40 ya\u015f\u0131nda idi.[7]<\/a> Hz. Hat\u00eece v\u00e2lidemiz, mal\u0131 ve can\u0131 ile Peygamber Efendimiz\u2019e yeni bir g\u00fc\u00e7 kayna\u011f\u0131 oldu.[8]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ras\u00fblullah (s.a.v) hicret edinceye kadar Hz. Hat\u00eece\u2019nin evinde oturdular. Hicret ettiklerinde o eve Ak\u00eel b. Eb\u00ee T\u00e2lib el koydu.[9]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Allah Ras\u00fbl\u00fc (s.a.v):<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201c(Zaman\u0131n\u0131n)<\/em> en hay\u0131rl\u0131 kad\u0131n\u0131 Meryem bint-i \u0130mr\u00e2n\u2019d\u0131r. (Bu zaman\u0131n)<\/em> en hay\u0131rl\u0131 kad\u0131n\u0131 ise Hat\u00eece bint-i Huveylid\u2019dir\u201d <\/em>buyurmu\u015flard\u0131r.[10]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015eerefli bir \u00e2ileye mensup olan Hz. Hat\u00eece validemize, y\u00fcksek ahl\u00e2k\u0131 sebebiyle \u0130sl\u00e2m\u2019dan \u00f6nce Af\u00eefe<\/em> ve T\u00e2hire<\/em> denirdi. \u0130sl\u00e2m\u2019dan sonra da Hat\u00eecet\u00fc\u2019l-K\u00fcbr\u00e2<\/em> denilmi\u015ftir.[11]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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[1]<\/a> Bkz. H\u00e2kim, el-M\u00fcstedrek<\/em>, 3\/200; T\u0130A<\/em>, \u201cHatice\u201d, Temel \u0130slam Ansiklopedisi<\/em> (\u0130stanbul: T\u00fcrkiye Diyanet Vakf\u0131 Yay\u0131nlar\u0131, 2020), 3\/409-411.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[2]<\/a> \u0130bn Sa\u02bbd, et-Tabak\u0101t\u00fc\u2019l-k\u00fcbr\u00e2<\/em>, 1\/131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[3]<\/a> Eb\u00fb\u2019l-Fa\u1e0dl A\u1e25med b. \u02bfAl\u00ee el-\u0130bn Hacer el-\u02bfAs\u1e33al\u00e2n\u00ee, Fethu\u2019l-B\u00e2r\u00ee \u015fer\u1e25u \u1e62a\u1e25\u00ee\u1e25i\u2019l-Bu\u1e2b\u00e2r\u00ee<\/em>, thk. Mu\u1e25ammed Fu\u02be\u00e2d \u02bfAbdulb\u00e2\u1e33\u00ee (Beyrut: D\u00e2ru\u2019l-Ma\u02bfrife, 1959), 7\/134.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[4]<\/a> \u0130bn Hi\u015f\u00e2m, es-S\u00eeret\u00fc\u2019n-nebeviyye<\/em>, thk. Mustafa es-Sekk\u0101 (Kahire: Mektebet\u00fc Mustafa el-B\u00e2b\u00ee, 1375), 1\/190.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[5]<\/a> \u0130zz\u00fcdd\u00een Ebu\u2019l-Hasan Ali b. Muhammed \u0130bn\u00fc\u2019l-Es\u00eer, \u00dcsd\u00fc\u2019l-g\u0101be f\u00ee ma\u02bbrifeti\u2019s-sah\u00e2be<\/em>, thk. Ali Muhammed Muavvad – \u00c2dil Ahmed Abd\u00fclmevc\u00fbd (Beyrut: D\u00e2ru\u2019l-K\u00fct\u00fcbi\u2019l-\u02bf\u0130lmiyye, 1415), 1\/124.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[6]<\/a> H\u00e2kim, el-M\u00fcstedrek<\/em>, 3\/200.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[7]<\/a> \u0130bn Sa\u02bbd, et-Tabak\u0101t\u00fc\u2019l-k\u00fcbr\u00e2<\/em>, 8\/17.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[8]<\/a> \u0130bn Sa\u02bbd, et-Tabak\u0101t\u00fc\u2019l-k\u00fcbr\u00e2<\/em>, 8\/14-15.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[9]<\/a> Eb\u00fb Abdullah Muhammed b. \u0130shak F\u00e2kih\u00ee, Ahb\u00e2ru Mekke f\u00ee kad\u00eemi\u2019d-dehri ve had\u00eesih<\/em>, thk. Abd\u00fclmelik b. Abdullah b. Deh\u00ee\u015f (Mekket\u00fc\u2019l-M\u00fckerreme: Mektebet\u00fc\u2019l-Esed\u00ee, 1424), 4\/7.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[10]<\/a> Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, \u201cMen\u00e2k\u0131bu\u2019l-Ens\u00e2r\u201d, 20; M\u00fcslim, \u201cFed\u00e2ilu\u2019s-Sah\u00e2be\u201d, 69.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[11]<\/a> \u0130bn Sa\u02bbd, et-Tabak\u0101t\u00fc\u2019l-k\u00fcbr\u00e2<\/em>, 8\/14-15.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Hz. Hat\u00eece\u2019nin k\u00fcnyesi \u00dcmm\u00fc Hind idi, daha sonra \u00dcmm\u00fc\u2019l-K\u0101s\u0131m k\u00fcnyesini ald\u0131. Annesi F\u00e2t\u0131ma binti Z\u00e2ide b. C\u00fcndeb el-\u00c2miriyye\u2019dir. Soyu dedelerinden Kusay\u2019da Ras\u00fblullah (s.a.v)\u2019in soyuyla birle\u015fir. Daha \u00f6nce Eb\u00fb H\u00e2le Hind… <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1076],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17507","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-muminlerinannelerinden111hatira"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/s3G27m-evlilik","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17507","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=17507"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17507\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17508,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17507\/revisions\/17508"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=17507"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=17507"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=17507"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}