{"id":370,"date":"2013-06-01T16:49:54","date_gmt":"2013-06-01T14:49:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/?p=370"},"modified":"2013-11-30T11:03:55","modified_gmt":"2013-11-30T09:03:55","slug":"a-islam-oncesi-kadin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/?p=370","title":{"rendered":"a. \u0130sl\u00e2m \u00d6ncesi Kad\u0131n"},"content":{"rendered":"

Yah\u00fbdilik<\/b>\u2019te kad\u0131n\u0131n birinci vazifesi ve varl\u0131k sebebi \u00e7ocuk do\u011furmak[1]<\/a> ve yuvaya bakmakt\u0131. Kad\u0131n, kocas\u0131 ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 i\u00e7in mutluluk kayna\u011f\u0131yd\u0131.[2]<\/a> Onun anne olarak hus\u00fbs\u00ee bir mevk\u00eei vard\u0131 ve ona sayg\u0131 g\u00f6sterilmeliydi.[3]<\/a> Ancak din tahrif edildik\u00e7e yahudilerin kad\u0131na bak\u0131\u015f\u0131 da bozuldu. Onlar h\u00e2l\u00e2, her g\u00fcn sabah ibadetinde okuduklar\u0131 duada: \u201cRabbim, beni kad\u0131n yaratmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7in sana \u015f\u00fck\u00fcrler olsun!\u201d derler.[4]<\/a><\/p>\n

Hristiyanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n<\/b> ilk d\u00f6neminde de ka\u00add\u0131nlar sessizlik, iffetlilik, yard\u0131m severlik ve sadece dua edicilik y\u00f6nleriyle \u00f6n plan\u00adda idiler. Ancak daha sonralar\u0131 kayg\u0131lar dile getirilmeye ba\u015fland\u0131. Kilise babalar\u0131, kad\u0131n\u0131 melekleri ba\u015ftan \u00e7\u0131karmak ve insan soyunu k\u00f6t\u00fc\u00adl\u00fc\u011fe itmekle su\u00e7lad\u0131lar. Hz. Hav\u00adv\u00e2 v\u00e2lidemizi, ilk g\u00fcnaha sebep olarak \u015fehveti ve \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc d\u00fcnyaya sokmakla itham edip ay\u0131plad\u0131lar. Onlar\u0131n kad\u0131nlarla il\u00adgili s\u00f6zleri, \u00e2deta kad\u0131n cinsine kar\u015f\u0131 bir d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmaktad\u0131r. Mesel\u00e2 Aziz Augustin<\/b> kad\u0131nlar\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck dolu, k\u0131skan\u00e7, karars\u0131z ve tutars\u0131z, b\u00fct\u00fcn tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n, kavga\u00adlar\u0131n ve haks\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131n kayna\u011f\u0131 olarak tak\u00addim eder ve evlilikteki me\u015fr\u00fb m\u00fcnasebeti dah\u00ee g\u00fcnah olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Katolik kilise\u00adsindeki nik\u00e2h t\u00f6reninde okunan duada, \u201cG\u00fcnahla d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm annemin karn\u0131na, g\u00fcnah i\u015flemi\u015f annem bana gebe kal\u0131r\u00adken\u201d denilir. Bu anlay\u0131\u015f, insanlar\u0131 evlilikten uzakla\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131\u015f, \u201ckutsal b\u00e2kireler kurumu\u201d, \u201ckad\u0131n m\u00fcnzevi\u00adler\u201d ve \u201ckad\u0131n manast\u0131rlar\u0131\u201dn\u0131n zuhuruna sebep olmu\u015ftur. Onlar\u0131n anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na g\u00f6re, manast\u0131ra kapanan r\u00e2hibe\u00adler temizlik sembol\u00fc olan Hz. \u0130sa\u2019n\u0131n e\u015f\u00adleri olacaklard\u0131r. Hz. \u0130sa temizlik sembo\u00adl\u00fcd\u00fcr, zira Hz. Meryem onu cins\u00ee m\u00fcnasebete girmeden do\u011furmu\u015ftur. \u015eu halde yap\u0131la\u00adcak tek \u015fey Hz. Meryem gibi temiz ve iffetli kalmakt\u0131r.[5]<\/a> Hristiyanlar, Hz. \u0130sa\u2019y\u0131 tanr\u0131 kabul ettiklerine g\u00f6re bu r\u00e2hibeler tanr\u0131n\u0131n han\u0131mlar\u0131 olacaklard\u0131r ve neticede tanr\u0131n\u0131n pek \u00e7ok han\u0131m\u0131 bulunacakt\u0131r. Bu inan\u00e7, onlar\u0131n ne kadar vahim bir mant\u0131ks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa s\u00fcr\u00fcklendi\u011fini g\u00f6stermektedir.<\/p>\n

Orta\u00e7a\u011f hristiyan d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda kad\u0131n ve evlilik \u00f6ylesine k\u00f6t\u00fclenmi\u015ftir ki Mac\u00f4n Konsili<\/b>\u2019nde (585) kad\u0131n\u0131n ruhunun olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 tart\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. On ikinci as\u0131rdan itibaren Bat\u0131\u2019da b\u00fcy\u00fcc\u00fc ve cad\u0131 av\u0131 ba\u015fla\u00adm\u0131\u015f, pek \u00e7ok kad\u0131n cinlerle al\u00e2kas\u0131 oldu\u011fu iddias\u0131yla yak\u0131lm\u0131\u015f veya suda bo\u011fulmu\u015f\u00adtur.[6]<\/a><\/p>\n

Daha sonra bunun aksine bir ifrat olarak Meryem ana \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131l\u0131p tanr\u0131n\u0131n annesi olarak takdim edilmi\u015ftir. Yeni d\u00f6nemde ise bu a\u015f\u0131r\u0131l\u0131klara tepki olarak feminizm ve ka\u00add\u0131n haklar\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fcd\u00e2faa eden ba\u015fka bir a\u015f\u0131r\u0131l\u0131k zuh\u00fbr etmi\u015ftir.[7]<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n

Cahiliye devrinde<\/b> kad\u0131n her t\u00fcrl\u00fc i\u015fkence ve hakarete u\u011fruyordu. Hakk\u0131 yeniyor, serveti ya\u011fmalan\u0131yor, mirastan mahrum b\u0131rak\u0131l\u0131yor, bo\u015fand\u0131ktan veya kocas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnden sonra sevdi\u011fi bir erkekle evlenmesi yasaklan\u0131yordu.[8]<\/a><\/p>\n

G\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi insanl\u0131k, il\u00e2h\u00ee t\u00e2lim\u00e2tlardan uzakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ifrat ve tefritlerden kurtulamam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. F\u0131trata ayk\u0131r\u0131 olan bu a\u015f\u0131r\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n insana fayda getirmesi imk\u00e2ns\u0131zd\u0131r. \u0130sl\u00e2m ise her hususta oldu\u011fu gibi kad\u0131n mevzuunda da en do\u011fru olan\u0131 getirmi\u015ftir. Cen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hak, biyolojik olarak farkl\u0131 yap\u0131larda yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 kad\u0131n ve erke\u011fe, kendilerine en m\u00fcn\u00e2sip hak ve vazifeleri vermi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n


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[1]<\/a> Tekv\u00een, 3:16.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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[2]<\/a> S\u00fcleyman\u2019\u0131n Meselleri, 31:28.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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[3]<\/a> \u00c7\u0131k\u0131\u015f, 20:12; Levililer, 20:9.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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[4]<\/a> Prof. Dr. \u00d6. F. Harman, \u201cKad\u0131n\u201d mad., D\u0130A<\/i>, XXIV, 84.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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[5]<\/a> Prof. Dr. \u00d6. F. Harman, \u201cKad\u0131n\u201d mad., D\u0130A<\/i>, XXIV, 85. Lecky<\/b>, History of European Morals<\/i> isimli kitab\u0131nda bu hususta pek \u00e7ok ac\u0131 hik\u00e2ye nakleder. Eb\u00fc\u2019l-Hasan en-Nedv\u00ee, M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n Gerilemesiyle D\u00fcnya Neler Kaybetti,<\/i> s. 205.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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[6]<\/a> Bir Sakson h\u00e2kim, Kitab-\u0131 Mukaddes\u2019i 53 kez okumu\u015f ve bu arada 20 bin b\u00fcy\u00fcc\u00fcy\u00fc \u00f6l\u00fcme mahk\u00fbm etmi\u015f olmakla \u00f6v\u00fcnebilmi\u015ftir. Tarih\u00e7iler yak\u0131lan b\u00fcy\u00fcc\u00fc say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n 2.000.000 (iki milyon) civ\u00e2r\u0131nda oldu\u011funu tahmin etmektedirler.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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[7]<\/a> Prof. Dr. \u00d6. F. Harman, \u201cKad\u0131n\u201d mad., D\u0130A<\/i>, XXIV, 86.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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[8]<\/a> Bakara, 231, 232; Nisa, 3, 19, 139; En\u2018\u00e2m, 139. Eb\u00fc\u2019l-Hasan en-Nedv\u00ee, M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n Gerilemesiyle D\u00fcnya Neler Kaybetti,<\/i> s. 77.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Yah\u00fbdilik\u2019te kad\u0131n\u0131n birinci vazifesi ve varl\u0131k sebebi \u00e7ocuk do\u011furmak[1] ve yuvaya bakmakt\u0131. Kad\u0131n, kocas\u0131 ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 i\u00e7in mutluluk kayna\u011f\u0131yd\u0131.[2] Onun anne olarak hus\u00fbs\u00ee bir mevk\u00eei vard\u0131 ve ona sayg\u0131 g\u00f6sterilmeliydi.[3]… <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-370","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ebediyolharitasiislam"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3G27m-5Y","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/370","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=370"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/370\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9035,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/370\/revisions\/9035"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=370"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=370"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=370"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}