\u201cK\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcze merhamet etmeyen b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcze h\u00fcrmet g\u00f6stermeyen bizden de\u011fildir\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n
Tirmizi, Birr, 15<\/p>\n
Ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131k Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2\u2019n\u0131n f\u0131tr\u00ee bir kanunu, hayat a\u011fac\u0131n\u0131n ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 son \u015fekildir. \u00c7ocukluk, gen\u00e7lik, olgunluk, d\u00f6nemi derken \u00f6mr\u00fc olan herkes kendini ihtiyarl\u0131k potas\u0131nda buluverir. Art\u0131k insan bu devrede g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcl\u00fck yerine \u00e2cizlik, g\u00fczellik yerine \u00e7irkinlik, ilerleme yerine gerileme, s\u0131hhat yerine hastal\u0131k gibi ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz hallerle ba\u015f ba\u015fa kal\u0131r. Kur\u2019\u00e2n-\u0131 Ker\u00eem\u2019de s\u00f6z konusu duruma \u015f\u00f6yle dikkat \u00e7ekilmektedir:<\/p>\n
\u201cSizi topraktan, sonra nutfeden <\/b>(sperma), sonra al\u00e2kadan yaratan, sonra bebek olarak \u00e7\u0131karan, sonra sizi g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc kuvvetli bir \u00e7a\u011fa eri\u015fmeniz, sonra da ihtiyarlaman\u0131z -ki daha \u00f6nce vefat edenler de vard\u0131r- ve belli bir vakte ula\u015fman\u0131z i\u00e7in ya\u015fatan O\u2019dur. Umulur ki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz!\u201d<\/b> (el-M\u00fc\u2019min, 40\/67)<\/p>\n
\u00a0\u201cSizi Allah yaratt\u0131. Sonra sizi vefat ettirecek, daha \u00f6nce bilgili iken hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi bilmez hale gelsin diye sizden baz\u0131 kimseler \u00f6mr\u00fcn en zay\u0131f <\/b>(erzeli\u2019l-\u00f6mr) \u00e7a\u011f\u0131na kadar ya\u015fat\u0131lacak. \u015e\u00fcphesiz Allah her \u015feyi bilendir ve her \u015feye k\u00e2dirdir.\u201d <\/b>(en-Nahl 16\/70)<\/b><\/p>\n
Efendimiz -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- de:<\/p>\n
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Allah\u0131m! \u00c2cizlikten, tembellikten, korkakl\u0131ktan, ihtiyarlay\u0131p ele avuca d\u00fc\u015fmekten ve cimrilikten… sana s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r\u0131m.\u201d <\/i>(M\u00fcslim, Zikir 50)<\/p>\n
\u201cAllah\u0131m!… \u0130htiyarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n bunakl\u0131\u011f\u0131na (erzeli\u2019l-\u00f6mr) d\u00fc\u00e7ar olmaktan sana s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r\u0131m\u201d <\/i>(B\u00fbh\u00e2r\u00ee, Cihad, 25) dualar\u0131yla ihtiyarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n bu m\u00fc\u015fkil h\u00e2linden Allah\u2019a iltica etmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n
Do\u011frusu, tarih boyunca insan anatomisiyle u\u011fra\u015fan bir\u00e7ok alim ve doktor, ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ortadan kald\u0131rmak veya en az\u0131ndan onu asgar\u00ee d\u00fczeye indirmek i\u00e7in \u00e7ok u\u011fra\u015fm\u0131\u015flar, ancak buna muvaffak olamam\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde bir tak\u0131m estetik ameliyat ve tedavilerle v\u00fccutta y\u00fczeysel bir iyile\u015ftirme yap\u0131labiliyorsa da, bedendeki \u00e7\u00f6k\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn ve \u00f6m\u00fcr a\u011fac\u0131n\u0131n kurumas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7ilememektedir. Nitekim Fahr-i K\u00e2in\u00e2t -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- de bu duruma \u015f\u00f6yle vurgu yapmaktad\u0131r:<\/p>\n
\u201cEy Allah\u2019\u0131n kullar\u0131 tedavi olunuz! Zira Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2 ihtiyarl\u0131k hari\u00e7 her hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131n bir \u015fifas\u0131n\u0131 yaratm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.\u201d <\/i>(Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, T\u0131b, 1; Tirmiz\u00ee, T\u0131b, 2)<\/p>\n
\u00d6mr\u00fc olan herkes ya\u015flanaca\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6re insano\u011flu, ihtiyarl\u0131k gelmeden \u00f6nce s\u00e2lih ameller yapmak suretiyle hayat sermayesini \u015fuurlu bir \u015fekilde kullanmay\u0131 bilmelidir. Zira hadis-i \u015ferifte, kemal ya\u015f\u0131na erdikten sonra d\u00fcnya hayat\u0131 sona erenlerin, yapamad\u0131klar\u0131 iyilikler sebebiyle il\u00e2h\u00ee huzurda bahanelerinin kalmayaca\u011f\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle ifade edilmi\u015ftir: <\/i><\/p>\n
\u201cAllah Te\u00e2la altm\u0131\u015f y\u0131l \u00f6m\u00fcr verdi\u011fi ki\u015finin mazeret g\u00f6sterme imkan\u0131n\u0131 ortadan kald\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.\u201d<\/i> (Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, Rik\u00e2k, 5).<\/p>\n
Ayr\u0131ca insano\u011flu ya\u015flan\u0131p, v\u00fccudu y\u0131pransa da i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131ndaki ebediyet arzusu b\u00e2k\u00eedir. Nefs\u00e2niyetin mayas\u0131nda f\u00e2nili\u011fe isyan vard\u0131r. Allah Ras\u00fbl\u00fc -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- \u201c\u0130htiyar\u0131n kalbi iki \u015feyi sevme hususunda gen\u00e7tir. Bunlar, \u00e7ok ya\u015fama ve mal sevgisidir<\/i>\u201d (M\u00fcslim, Zek\u00e2t, 113, 114) buyurmaktad\u0131r. \u0130blis de Hz. Adem\u2019i kand\u0131rmak i\u00e7in f\u0131trat\u0131ntaki ebed\u00eelik duygusunu istismar etmi\u015ftir. Zira \u201c\u015eeytan ona: \u00abEy Adem! Sana \u00f6l\u00fcms\u00fczl\u00fck a\u011fac\u0131n\u0131 ve yok olmayacak bir m\u00fclk\u00fc g\u00f6stereyim mi?\u00bb diye vesvese vermi\u015ftir.\u201d <\/b>(T\u00e2h\u00e2 20\/120)<\/p>\n
Asl\u0131nda insan ihtiyarlay\u0131nca di\u011fer kuvvet ve hisler gibi d\u00fcnya sevgisi ve uzun ya\u015fama d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesinin de gerilemesi gerekir. \u0130\u015fin aksine tecelli etmesi ki\u015finin i\u00e7indeki bek\u00e2 duygusuyla yak\u0131ndan alakal\u0131d\u0131r. Ancak ebed\u00ee hayat\u0131n ya\u015fanaca\u011f\u0131 ahirete haz\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 olanlar i\u00e7in \u00f6l\u00fcm; ruhun kafesten kurtularak l\u00e2hut\u00ee \u00e2leme u\u00e7mas\u0131 ve d\u00fcnya me\u015fakkatlerinden s\u0131yr\u0131lmas\u0131 demektir. \u0130htiyarl\u0131k ise bu vuslat halinin son basama\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/b><\/p>\n
Ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n toplum i\u00e7indeki konumlar\u0131n\u0131 \u0130sl\u00e2m\u00ee duyarl\u0131l\u0131kla de\u011ferlendirdi\u011fimizde onlara bir \u00e7ocuktan daha fazla itina g\u00f6stermememiz laz\u0131md\u0131r. Buna g\u00f6re ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n incelmi\u015f duygular\u0131 rencide edilmemeli, ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131ktan dolay\u0131 vuku bulabilecek bir tak\u0131m halleri ho\u015f kar\u015f\u0131lanmal\u0131 ve onlar\u0131n hay\u0131r dualar\u0131 al\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ayr\u0131ca, p\u00eer-i f\u00e2nilerin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n, r\u0131zk\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n geni\u015flemesine vesile oldu\u011fu, bela ve musibetlere kar\u015f\u0131 birer kalkan vazifesi g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc unutulmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Efendimiz -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem-\u00a0 \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur:<\/p>\n
\u201cZay\u0131f ve d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnlerinize dikkat ediniz! Zira siz ancak d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnleriniz sayesinde yard\u0131m g\u00f6r\u00fcr ve r\u0131z\u0131klan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z.\u201d<\/i> (Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, Cih\u00e2d, 69)<\/p>\n
\u201cBeli b\u00fck\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f ihtiyarlar, s\u00fct emen bebekler ve otlayan hayvanlar olmasa idi \u00fczerinize (bela ve) azap ya\u011fard\u0131.\u201d <\/i>\u00a0<\/b>(Heysem\u00ee, X, 227)<\/p>\n
Bu nedenle ya\u015fl\u0131 kimselerin varl\u0131klar\u0131na tahamm\u00fcl edememek, onlardan tiksinmek, bir an \u00f6nce \u00f6lmelerini arzu etmek gibi menfi tav\u0131r ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin \u0130sl\u00e2m ahl\u00e2k\u0131nda yeri yoktur. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla ger\u00e7ek m\u00fc\u2019minin \u00e7evresindeki ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131, hele hele ihtiyar peder ve validesini tahkir edecek davran\u0131\u015flarda bulunmas\u0131, onlar\u0131 huzur evi ad\u0131yla a\u00e7\u0131lm\u0131\u015f kimsesizler yurduna b\u0131rakmas\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclemez. Aksine onlar\u0131n huzur i\u00e7erisinde hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 devam ettirebilmeleri i\u00e7in imkan nisbetinde yan\u0131 ba\u015flar\u0131nda hizmetlerine ko\u015fturmas\u0131 gerekir. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla bug\u00fcn\u00fcn genci -Allah \u00f6m\u00fcr verirse- kendisi de ya\u015flanacak ve yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hizmetin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 mutlaka g\u00f6recektir. Efendimiz -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- buyuruyor ki:<\/p>\n
\u201cAllah Te\u00e2l\u00e2, ya\u015f\u0131ndan \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fc bir ihtiyara sayg\u0131 g\u00f6steren gence, ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda hizmet edecek kimseler lutfeder<\/i>.\u201d<\/i> (Tirmiz\u00ee, Birr, 75)<\/p>\n
Bir ba\u015fka had\u00ees-i \u015fer\u00eefte de sa\u00e7\u0131 sakal\u0131 a\u011farm\u0131\u015f p\u00eer-i f\u00e2ni M\u00fcsl\u00fcmana sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermenin Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2\u2019ya duyulan sayg\u0131 ve tazimden ileri geldi\u011fi ifade edilmektedir. (Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, Edeb, 20)<\/p>\n
Bunun yan\u0131nda Res\u00fblullah -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- gerek d\u00fcnyev\u00ee gerekse uhrev\u00ee hususlarda ihtiyarlara daima kolayl\u0131k sa\u011flanmas\u0131n\u0131 tavsiye etmi\u015ftir. Malum oldu\u011fu \u00fczere namaz\u0131 \u00e7ok uzatan imam\u0131 uyar\u0131rken ya\u015fl\u0131 kimselere \u015f\u00f6yle at\u0131fta bulunmu\u015ftur:<\/p>\n
\u201cSizden biriniz, insanlara namaz k\u0131ld\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman, hafif tutsun. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar\u0131n aras\u0131nda zay\u0131f, hasta ve ya\u015fl\u0131lar vard\u0131r…\u201d <\/i>(Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, \u0130lim, 28)<\/p>\n
Yine Enes bin M\u00e2lik\u2019in nakline g\u00f6re, birg\u00fcn Hz. Peygamber\u2019i g\u00f6rmek isteyen ya\u015fl\u0131 bir adam gelmi\u015fti. Ah\u00e2li ona yol a\u00e7makta a\u011f\u0131r davranm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Bunun \u00fczerine Nebiyy-i Muhterem -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem-:<\/p>\n
\u201cK\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcze merhamet etmeyen b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcze h\u00fcrmet g\u00f6stermeyen bizden de\u011fildir\u201d<\/i> buyurdu. (Tirmizi, Birr, 15)<\/p>\n
Ayr\u0131ca Mekke\u2019nin fethinde Hz. Eb\u00fb Bekir ya\u015fl\u0131 babas\u0131 Eb\u00fb Kuh\u00e2fe\u2019yi M\u00fcsl\u00fcman olmak i\u00e7in Hz. Peygamber\u2019in huzuruna getirince, Res\u00fblullah -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem-:<\/p>\n
\u00a0\u201c\u2013 \u015eu ihtiyar\u0131 buraya kadar yormay\u0131p evinde b\u0131raksayd\u0131n ben onu ziyaret ederdim\u201d<\/i>\u00a0 buyurdu.<\/p>\n
Hz. Eb\u00fb Bekir ise:<\/p>\n
\u2013 Onun size gelmesi daha uygundur, diye cevap verdi. \u00a0(\u0130bn Hi\u015f\u00e2m, IV, 25)<\/p>\n
Efendimiz -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem-\u2019in ihtiyar Eb\u00fb Kuh\u00e2fe\u2019ye olan bu nazik davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 Hz. Eb\u00fb Bekir\u2019e kar\u015f\u0131 iltifat\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda ya\u015fl\u0131 insanlara duydu\u011fu sayg\u0131n\u0131n bir ifadesi olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclmelidir.<\/p>\n
Di\u011fer taraftan Nebiyy-i Ekrem -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- sava\u015f i\u00e7in g\u00f6nderdi\u011fi m\u00fccahitlerine tavsiyede bulunurken, kad\u0131nlar ve \u00e7ocuklar yan\u0131nda ihtiyarlara da dokunmamalar\u0131n\u0131 emretmi\u015ftir. (V\u00e2kid\u00ee, Me\u011f\u00e2z\u00ee, II, 758)<\/p>\n
Ne mutlu kendini bilen ve kalben Yaratan\u2019\u0131 ile bulu\u015fmu\u015f ihtiyarlara…Ve ne mutlu ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n de\u011ferini bilip, onlara sevgi ve sayg\u0131 g\u00f6steren kimselere!…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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