\u0130ffet, yeme i\u00e7me ve \u015fehev\u00ee arzular hus\u00fbsunda \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fc olmak, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ve s\u00fcfl\u00ee arzular\u0131 bast\u0131r\u0131p dinin ve akl\u0131n emri alt\u0131na almak s\u00fbretiyle faziletli bir hayat ya\u015famakt\u0131r. Cen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hak, kullar\u0131n\u0131n iffetli bir hayat ya\u015famas\u0131n\u0131 arzu buyurur. \u0130ffetli davranmakla insan, nefsin arzular\u0131na esir olmaktan kurtulur ve ger\u00e7ek h\u00fcrriyeti elde eder. Nitekim \u201c\u0130nsan\u0131 zillete d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcren as\u0131l k\u00f6lelik, \u015fehvet k\u00f6leli\u011fidir\u201d<\/i><\/b> denilmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n
\u0130ffet, insana ait bir hus\u00fbsiyettir. Di\u011fer mahl\u00fbk\u00e2t i\u00e7in b\u00f6yle bir durum mevzubahis de\u011fildir. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla insan\u0131 di\u011fer mahl\u00fbk\u00e2ttan ay\u0131ran en f\u00e2rik vas\u0131f iffettir. Onun kaybedilmesi; insanl\u0131k haysiyetini z\u00e2y\u00ee etmek ve di\u011fer mahl\u00fbk\u00e2t\u0131n seviyesine d\u00fc\u015fmek demektir. \u0130ffetin muhafazas\u0131 ise daha \u00e7ok hay\u00e2 duygusu ile sa\u011flan\u0131r. Hay\u00e2 da temel ahl\u00e2k\u00ee vas\u0131flardand\u0131r. Had\u00ees-i \u015feriflerde \u015f\u00f6yle buyurulur:<\/p>\n
\u00a0\u201cHay\u00e2 \u00eemandand\u0131r ve hay\u00e2l\u0131 olan kimse cennettedir! Hay\u00e2s\u0131zl\u0131k ise kalbin kat\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131ndand\u0131r; kalbi kat\u0131 olan da cehennemdedir!..\u201d<\/i> (Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, \u00cem\u00e2n, 16)<\/p>\n
\u201cAllah <\/i>U \u00e7ok hay\u00e2l\u0131 ve \u00e7ok gizlidir. Bundan dolay\u0131 hay\u00e2y\u0131 ve \u00f6rt\u00fcnmeyi sever. O h\u00e2lde herhangi biriniz gusledece\u011fi zaman \u00f6rt\u00fcns\u00fcn.\u201d<\/i> (Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, Hamm\u00e2m, 1\/4012)<\/p>\n
\u201cHay\u00e2 ve \u00eeman bir aradad\u0131r; biri gitti\u011finde di\u011feri de gider!\u201d <\/i>(Taber\u00e2n\u00ee, Evsat, <\/i>VIII, 174; Beyhak\u00ee, \u015euab, <\/i>VI, 140; Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, Edeb,<\/i> no: 1313)<\/i><\/p>\n
\u0130nsan\u0131 ahl\u00e2ka ayk\u0131r\u0131 her t\u00fcrl\u00fc fen\u00e2l\u0131ktan ve nefs\u00e2n\u00ee d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerden ancak hay\u00e2 faz\u00eeleti menedebilir. M\u00fc\u2019mini \u00e7irkinliklerden muhafaza hus\u00fbsunda edep ve hay\u00e2n\u0131n tesiri, y\u00fczlerce kanun ve z\u00e2b\u0131ta kuvvetinden daha ileridir. \u0130ffet ve hay\u00e2 sahibi bir insana; \u201cUtanm\u0131yor musun?\u201d demek, onu k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerden uzakla\u015ft\u0131rmaya k\u00e2f\u00eedir.<\/p>\n
Y\u00fcce Rabbimiz, iffet ve hay\u00e2 hus\u00fbsunda zirveye \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f olan iki \u015fahs\u0131, m\u00fc\u2019minlere \u00f6rnek olarak g\u00f6sterir. Bunlar \u201ck\u0131ssalar\u0131n en g\u00fczeli\u201d diye <\/b>Y\u00fbsuf S\u00fbresi\u2019nde hik\u00e2yesi anlat\u0131lan Y\u00fbsuf <\/b>u <\/b>ile Kur\u2019\u00e2n-\u0131 Ker\u00eem\u2019in 34 yerinde kendisinden \u00f6vg\u00fcyle bahsedilen Hz. Meryem<\/b>\u2019dir. \u00c2yet-i ker\u00eemede \u015f\u00f6yle buyrulur:<\/p>\n
\u201c\u0130ffetini korumu\u015f olan \u0130mr\u00e2n k\u0131z\u0131 Meryem\u2019i de <\/b>(Allah \u00f6rnek g\u00f6sterdi). Biz, ona ruhumuzdan \u00fcfledik, o da Rabbinin s\u00f6zlerini ve kitaplar\u0131n\u0131 tasdik etti ve g\u00f6n\u00fclden itaat edenlerden oldu.\u201d<\/b> (Tahr\u00eem, 12; Enbiy\u00e2, 91)<\/b><\/p>\n
Y\u00fbsuf u ise, gen\u00e7 ve g\u00fczel bir kad\u0131n, b\u00fct\u00fcn imk\u00e2nlar\u0131 sa\u011flad\u0131ktan sonra kendisini iffetsizli\u011fe \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda; \u201cAllah\u2019a s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r\u0131m, z\u00e2limler iflah olmaz\u201d<\/b> diyerek oradan h\u0131zla uzakla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u0130ffetsizli\u011fe d\u00fc\u015fmekle zindan aras\u0131nda tercih yapmak zorunda kald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ise hi\u00e7 teredd\u00fct etmeden:<\/p>\n
\u201cZindan bana, bunlar\u0131n d\u00e2vet etti\u011fi \u015feyden daha sevimlidir\u201d <\/b>deyip Allah\u2019a s\u0131\u011f\u0131nm\u0131\u015f, Allah da onun iffetini muhafaza buyurmu\u015ftur. (Y\u00fbsuf, 23-25, 33-34)<\/p>\n
Bir iffet tims\u00e2li \u015fah\u0131s da Hz. \u0130brahim\u2019in zevcesi S\u00e2re v\u00e2lidemizdir: M\u0131s\u0131r \u00fclkesini Firavun \u00e2ilesi id\u00e2re ediyordu. Bunlar z\u00e2lim ve kibirli kimselerdi. Huduttan yabanc\u0131 ve g\u00fczel bir kad\u0131n \u015fehre girdi\u011fi zaman hemen Firavun\u2019a bildirilirdi. Evli ise kocas\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcr, e\u011fer erkek karde\u015fi varsa, kad\u0131n ondan istenirdi. \u0130br\u00e2him u, yan\u0131nda S\u00e2re<\/b> v\u00e2lidemiz oldu\u011fu h\u00e2lde huduttan ge\u00e7ince yine saraya haber gitti. Cem\u00e2l sahibi bir kad\u0131n\u0131n M\u0131s\u0131r\u2019a girdi\u011fi bildirildi. S\u00e2re v\u00e2lidemizi al\u0131p saraya g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fcler. Bu hususla al\u00e2kal\u0131 olarak bir had\u00ees-i \u015fer\u00eefte \u015f\u00f6yle buyrulur:<\/p>\n
\u201cS\u00e2re saraya girince, hemen abdest ald\u0131 ve iki rek\u00e2t namaz k\u0131lmak \u00fczere huz\u00fbr-i il\u00e2h\u00eeye durdu. Namaz\u0131 bitirince Cen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hakk\u2019a \u015f\u00f6yle iltic\u00e2 etti:<\/i><\/p>\n
\u00abAllah\u2019\u0131m! Ben, sana ve senin peygamberine inanm\u0131\u015f, iffetimi de zevcimden ba\u015fkas\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 titizlikle korumu\u015f bir kulun isem, \u015fu k\u00e2firi bana musallat etme!\u00bb\u201d<\/i> (Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, B\u00fcy\u00fb\u2019, 100)<\/p>\n
Firavun, S\u00e2re\u2019nin yan\u0131na yakla\u015fmak istedi. Birden nefesi kesildi. Fel\u00e7 oldu. Bu durum birka\u00e7 defa tekerr\u00fcr etti. Nihayet Firavun, korkusundan onu serbest b\u0131rakt\u0131. C\u00e2riyesi H\u00e2cer<\/b>\u2019i de ona hediye etti. (M\u00fcslim, Fed\u00e2il, 154)<\/p>\n
Peygamber Efendimiz ve onun han\u0131mlar\u0131 da bizim i\u00e7in en g\u00fczel iffet n\u00fcm\u00fbneleridir. Cen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hak \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur:<\/p>\n
\u201cEy Peygamber han\u0131mlar\u0131! Siz, kad\u0131nlardan herhangi biri gibi de\u011filsiniz. E\u011fer <\/b>(Allah\u2019tan) korkuyorsan\u0131z, <\/b>(yabanc\u0131 erkeklere kar\u015f\u0131) \u00e7ekici bir ed\u00e2 ile konu\u015fmay\u0131n! Sonra kalbinde hastal\u0131k bulunan kimse \u00fcmide kap\u0131l\u0131r. M\u00e2ruf \u00fczere, uygun, cidd\u00ee ve a\u011f\u0131r ba\u015fl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde konu\u015fun! Evlerinizde oturun, eski c\u00e2hiliye \u00e2detinde oldu\u011fu gibi a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131p sa\u00e7\u0131lmay\u0131n! Namaz\u0131 k\u0131l\u0131n, zek\u00e2t\u0131 verin, Allah\u2019a ve Ras\u00fbl\u00fc\u2019ne itaat edin! Ey Ehl-i Beyt! Allah sizden, sadece g\u00fcnah\u0131 gidermek ve sizi tertemiz yapmak istiyor.\u201d<\/b> (Ahz\u00e2b, 32-33)<\/p>\n
\u00c2i\u015fe (r.a) bu \u00e2yet-i ke\u00adr\u00eemeyi okudu\u011fu zaman, ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc \u0131slat\u0131ncaya kadar a\u011flarm\u0131\u015f. (Kurtub\u00ee, el-C\u00e2mi,<\/i> [Ahz\u00e2b, 33]) Herhalde bu \u00e2yetleri okuyunca Cemel Vak\u2018as\u0131\u2019n\u0131 hat\u0131rl\u0131yor ve o h\u00e2diseye kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcyordu.<\/p>\n
Evinden pek fazla d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmayan Hz. Sevde<\/b>\u00a0(r.a) v\u00e2lidemize:<\/p>\n
\u201c\u2013Ni\u00e7in di\u011fer karde\u015flerinin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 gi\u00adbi haccetmiyor, umreye gitmiyorsun?\u201d diye sorulmu\u015ftu. O da:<\/p>\n
\u201c\u2013Daha \u00f6nce hacc\u0131m\u0131 ve umremi yapt\u0131m. Allah da bana evimde oturmam\u0131 emrediyor. O h\u00e2lde neden \u00e7\u0131kay\u0131m ki?!\u201d kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 verdi.<\/p>\n
H\u00e2diseyi nakleden r\u00e2v\u00ee der ki:<\/p>\n
\u201cAllah\u2019a yemin ederim ki, odas\u0131n\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131ndan ce\u00adnazesi \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131l\u0131ncaya kadar d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131.\u201d (Kurtub\u00ee, el-C\u00e2mi,<\/i> [Ahz\u00e2b, 33])<\/p>\n
\u0130ffet ve hay\u00e2 hus\u00fbsunda zirveye \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f \u015fahsiyetlerden biri de Hz. Osman<\/b>\u2019d\u0131r. Ras\u00fblullah r, meleklerin bile ondan hay\u00e2 etti\u011fini haber vermi\u015ftir. (Ahmed, I, 71; VI, 155)<\/p>\n
Hz. Osman<\/b> t \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur:<\/p>\n
\u201cVallahi ben c\u00e2hiliye devrinde de \u0130sl\u00e2m d\u00f6nemin\u00adde de hi\u00e7 zin\u00e2 etmedim. C\u00e2hiliyede tiksindi\u011fim i\u00e7in, m\u00fcsl\u00fcman olduktan sonra ise iffetimden dolay\u0131 zin\u00e2ya yakla\u015fmad\u0131m.\u201d (Bkz. Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, Diy\u00e2t, 3\/4502; Ahmed, I, 163)<\/p>\n
Bak\u0131\u015flarda ve Konu\u015fmada \u0130ffet<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Erkekler ile kad\u0131nlar aras\u0131nda hay\u00e2, iffet, nez\u00e2het ve nez\u00e2ketin h\u00e2kim olmas\u0131 \u00eec\u00e2b eder. Erkek ve kad\u0131n\u0131n gayr-i me\u015fr\u00fb al\u00e2ka ve muhabbeti, \u201cbak\u0131\u015f\u201dla ba\u015flar. Bu sebeple m\u00fcsl\u00fcman erkek ve kad\u0131nlar\u0131n l\u00fczumsuz bak\u0131\u015flardan sak\u0131nmalar\u0131, konu\u015facaklar\u0131 zaman da ba\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nlerine e\u011ferek konu\u015fmalar\u0131 emredilmi\u015ftir:<\/p>\n
\u201c<\/b>(Ras\u00fbl\u00fcm!) M\u00fc\u2019min erkeklere s\u00f6yle: G\u00f6zlerini <\/b>(haramdan) sak\u0131ns\u0131nlar ve \u0131rzlar\u0131n\u0131 korusunlar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu, kendileri i\u00e7in daha temiz bir davran\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u015e\u00fcphesiz Allah, onlar\u0131n yapmakta olduklar\u0131ndan haberdard\u0131r.<\/b><\/p>\n
M\u00fc\u2019min kad\u0131nlara da s\u00f6yle: G\u00f6zlerini <\/b>(harama bakmaktan) korusunlar; n\u00e2mus ve iffetlerini muhafaza etsinler. G\u00f6r\u00fcnen k\u0131s\u0131mlar\u0131 m\u00fcstesn\u00e2, z\u00eenetlerini te\u015fhir etmesinler. Ba\u015f\u00f6rt\u00fclerini, yakalar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerine <\/b>(kadar) \u00f6rts\u00fcnler\u2026 Gizlemekte olduklar\u0131 z\u00eenetleri anla\u015f\u0131ls\u0131n diye ayaklar\u0131n\u0131 yere vurmas\u0131nlar <\/b>(dikkat \u00e7ekecek \u015fekilde y\u00fcr\u00fcmesin, d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karken c\u00e2zip kokular s\u00fcr\u00fcnmesinler). Ey m\u00fc\u2019minler! Hep birden Allah\u2019a tevbe ediniz ki kurtulu\u015fa eresiniz.\u201d<\/b> (N\u00fbr, 30-31)<\/p>\n
Bu \u00e2yet-i ker\u00eeme n\u00e2zil olunca mesciddeki han\u0131m sah\u00e2b\u00eeler, evlerine gitmeyi beklemeden hemen orada elbiselerinin fazla k\u0131s\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 keserek ba\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 ve yakalar\u0131n\u0131 emre uygun \u015fekilde \u00f6rtt\u00fcler. (Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, Tefs\u00eer, 24\/12; Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, Lib\u00e2s, 31-33\/4102)<\/p>\n
Erkekler de evlerine d\u00f6n\u00fcp han\u0131mlar\u0131na, k\u0131zlar\u0131na, k\u0131zkarde\u015flerine ve b\u00fct\u00fcn arkabalar\u0131na bu \u00e2yetleri okudular. Bunun \u00fczerine b\u00fct\u00fcn kad\u0131nlar, ba\u015ftan a\u015fa\u011f\u0131ya g\u00fczelce \u00f6rt\u00fcnd\u00fcler. B\u00f6ylece Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2\u2019n\u0131n indirmi\u015f oldu\u011fu h\u00fck\u00fcmleri derhal tasdik ettiklerini ve onlara g\u00f6n\u00fclden inand\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6sterdiler. Sabah namazda Allah Ras\u00fbl\u00fc\u2019n\u00fcn arkas\u0131nda g\u00fczelce \u00f6rt\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f olarak safa durdular. Tak\u0131nd\u0131klar\u0131 siyah \u00f6rt\u00fcleri sebebiyle sanki ba\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerinde kargalar varm\u0131\u015f gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyordu. (\u0130bn-i Kes\u00eer, Tefs\u00eer,<\/i> [N\u00fbr, 31])<\/p>\n
Cer\u00eer<\/b> t \u015f\u00f6yle der: Peygamber Efendimiz\u2019e bak\u0131lmas\u0131 haram olan \u015feyi ans\u0131z\u0131n g\u00f6rmenin h\u00fckm\u00fcn\u00fc sordum:<\/p>\n
\u201c\u2013Hemen g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ba\u015fka tarafa \u00e7evir!\u201d<\/i> buyurdu. (M\u00fcslim, \u00c2d\u00e2b 45; Eb\u00fb Dav\u00fbd, Nik\u00e2h, 43; Tirmiz\u00ee, Edeb, 28)<\/p>\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bakmak g\u00f6zlerin zinas\u0131 olmaktad\u0131r ve g\u00fcnaht\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde kulaklar\u0131n zinas\u0131 dinlemek, dilin zinas\u0131 konu\u015fmak, elin zinas\u0131 dokunmak, ayaklar\u0131n zinas\u0131 y\u00fcr\u00fcmek, kalbin ve nefsin zinas\u0131 da arzu etmektir. (Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, \u0130sti\u2019z\u00e2n 12, Kader 9; M\u00fcslim, Kader 20-21; Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, Nik\u00e2h, 43)<\/p>\n
Ras\u00fblullah r l\u00fczumsuz bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131n kalp i\u00e7in ne derece zararl\u0131 oldu\u011funu \u015f\u00f6yle ifade buyurur:<\/p>\n
\u201cHarama bak\u0131\u015f, iblisin zehirli oklar\u0131ndan bir oktur. Her kim Allah korkusu sebebiyle bunu terk ederse Allah ona kalbinde hal\u00e2vetini hissedece\u011fi bir iman bah\u015feder.\u201d<\/i> (H\u00e2kim, IV, 349\/7875)<\/p>\n
\u201cKimin g\u00f6z\u00fc bir kad\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fczelli\u011fine tak\u0131l\u0131r da hemen g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ondan \u00e7evirirse, Allah ona, kalbinde hal\u00e2vetini hissedece\u011fi bir ibadet sev\u00e2b\u0131 ihs\u00e2n eder.\u201d <\/i>(Ahmed, V, 264; Heysem\u00ee, VIII, 63)<\/p>\n
Harama bakmak yasakland\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi insanlar\u0131n dikkatini \u00e7ekecek \u015fekilde parf\u00fcm ve kokular s\u00fcr\u00fcnmek ve farkl\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flarda bulunmak da yasakt\u0131r. Ras\u00fblullah r \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur:<\/p>\n
\u201cHer g\u00f6z (harama bakmakla) zina eder. Kad\u0131n koku s\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcp (erkeklerin bulundu\u011fu) bir meclisten ge\u00e7ti\u011fi zaman, o da zina etmi\u015f say\u0131l\u0131r.\u201d<\/i> (Tirmiz\u00ee, Edeb, 35\/2786; Eb\u00fb D\u00e2vud, Terecc\u00fcl, 7\/4173; Nes\u00e2\u00ee, Z\u00eenet, 35)<\/p>\n
\u201cBir kad\u0131n koku s\u00fcr\u00fcnd\u00fcyse, yats\u0131 namaz\u0131nda bizimle birlikte bulunmas\u0131n!\u201d<\/i> <\/b>(M\u00fcslim, Sal\u00e2t, 143; Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, Terecc\u00fcl, 7; Nes\u00e2\u00ee, Z\u00eenet, 37,38)<\/p>\n
\u0130ffeti Muhafaza Etmenin Ehemmiyeti<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n