\u201cAllah Res\u00fbl\u00fc de bir be\u015ferdi. Elbisesini diker, <\/b><\/p>\n
koyunlar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011far, kendi i\u015flerini yapard\u0131.\u201d \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0<\/b>\u0130bn-i Hanbel, VI, 256<\/p>\n
Res\u00fblullah -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- hayat s\u00e2hibi her canl\u0131ya hizmet etmekten dolay\u0131 ecir al\u0131naca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 haber vermi\u015f (B\u00fbh\u00e2r\u00ee, \u015eirb, 9) ve kendisi de Allah\u2019\u0131n mahl\u00fbk\u00e2t\u0131na elinden gelen her t\u00fcrl\u00fc hizmeti yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Durum b\u00f6yle olunca onun \u00e2ilesine kar\u015f\u0131 nas\u0131l \u015fefkat ve yard\u0131m hisleriyle dolu oldu\u011funu anlamak zor de\u011fildir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o, kad\u0131nlara Allah\u2019\u0131n em\u00e2neti g\u00f6z\u00fcyle bakm\u0131\u015f, bu em\u00e2netlere son derece titiz ve n\u00e2zik davranm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Han\u0131mlar\u0131 onun etraf\u0131nda perv\u00e2ne olmalar\u0131na ra\u011fmen yine de kendi i\u015fini bizzat yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f; elbiselerini temizlemi\u015f, koyunlar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011fm\u0131\u015f, y\u0131rt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yamay\u0131p s\u00f6k\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc dikmi\u015f, ayakkab\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 tamir etmi\u015f, evini s\u00fcp\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015f, devesini ba\u011flay\u0131p yemini vermi\u015f, \u00e7ar\u015f\u0131dan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 e\u015fyay\u0131 bizzat ta\u015f\u0131yarak kimseye y\u00fck olmak istememi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n
Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe\u2019ye muhtelif zamanlarda, Res\u00fblullah -aleyhissel\u00e2m-\u2019\u0131n evindeki hayat\u0131 nas\u0131ld\u0131, diye sorduklar\u0131nda \u015fu cevaplar\u0131 vermi\u015ftir:<\/p>\n
\u2013 O, evinde sizler gibi ayakkab\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 tamir eder, elbisesini dikip yamard\u0131. (\u0130bn- i Hanbel, VI, 106)<\/p>\n
\u2013 Res\u00fblull\u00e2h -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- de bir be\u015ferdi. Elbisesini diker, koyunlar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011far, kendi i\u015flerini yapard\u0131. (\u0130bn-i Hanbel, VI, 256)<\/p>\n
\u2013 \u00c2ilesinin hizmetinde bulunurdu. Namaz vakti gelince de namaza giderdi. (Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, Ez\u00e2n, 44, Nefek\u00e2t, 8; Tirmiz\u00ee, K\u0131y\u00e2met, 45)<\/p>\n
Res\u00fblullah -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem-\u2019in han\u0131mlar\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131, ve onlar\u0131 memnun etmesini anlatan pek \u00e7ok rivayet mevcuttur. Bunlardan baz\u0131lar\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yledir:<\/p>\n
\u00a0Fahr-i K\u00e2in\u00e2t -sallallahu aleyhi ve sellem- Hayber d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnde han\u0131m\u0131 Safiyye v\u00e2lidemiz i\u00e7in bine\u011finin terkisine bir \u00f6rt\u00fc sererek onun rahat\u0131n\u0131 temin etmi\u015ftir. Sonra devesinin yan\u0131nda \u00e7\u00f6melip dizini dayayarak Safiyye -rad\u0131yallahu anh\u00e2-\u2019n\u0131n kolayca deveye binmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmu\u015ftur. (B\u00fbh\u00e2r\u00ee, Cihad, 102; M\u00fcslim, Nik\u00e2h, 464)<\/p>\n
Yine bir hac seferi esn\u00e2s\u0131nda Safiyye v\u00e2lidemizin devesi diz \u00fcst\u00fc \u00e7\u00f6kerek onu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcnce a\u011flamaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Res\u00fbl-i Ekrem Efendimiz onu sakinle\u015ftirerek kendi eliyle g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 sildi. (Muhibbudd\u00een et-Taber\u00ee, es-Semt\u00fc\u2019s-sem\u00een<\/i>, s. 143)<\/p>\n
\u00c2i\u015fe -rad\u0131yallahu anh\u00e2- Peygamber Efendimiz\u2019in mutfak i\u015flerinde kendisine yard\u0131mc\u0131 oldu\u011fu bir h\u00e2diseyi \u015f\u00f6yle anlat\u0131r:<\/p>\n
\u2013 Ben Res\u00fblull\u00e2h -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- ile birlikte evde oturuyordum. Babam Eb\u00fb Bekir bize bir koyun pa\u00e7as\u0131 hediye etti. Onu Allah Res\u00fbl\u00fc ile beraber karanl\u0131kta par\u00e7alad\u0131k.<\/p>\n
Dinleyenlerden birisi:<\/p>\n
\u2013 Sizin l\u00e2mban\u0131z yok muydu, diye sordu.<\/p>\n
Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe:<\/p>\n
\u2013 E\u011fer yan\u0131m\u0131zda l\u00e2mbaya koyacak ya\u011f\u0131m\u0131z olsayd\u0131 \u015f\u00fcphesiz onu kat\u0131k yapar yerdik, cev\u00e2b\u0131n\u0131 verdi. (Bkz. Ahmed, VI, 217; \u0130bn-i Sa\u2018d, I, 405)<\/p>\n
Fahr-i K\u00e2in\u00e2t Efendimiz evindeyken \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n bak\u0131m\u0131na da yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmu\u015ftur. K\u0131z\u0131 Hz. F\u00e2t\u0131ma\u2019n\u0131n evinde kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 birg\u00fcn, \u00f6nce Hasan sonra da H\u00fcseyin su istemi\u015flerdi. Allah Res\u00fbl\u00fc -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- derhal kalk\u0131p \u00f6nce Hasan\u2019a sonra da H\u00fcseyin\u2019e su verdi. Bundan Hasan\u2019\u0131 daha \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fi h\u00fckm\u00fcne varmak isteyen F\u00e2t\u0131ma\u2019ya da:<\/p>\n
\u201c\u2013 Hay\u0131r, ilk defa Hasan istedi\u201d <\/i>dedi. Sonra da:<\/p>\n
\u201c\u2212 Ba\u011f\u0131\u015f ve ihsanlarda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za e\u015fit davran\u0131n! \u015eayet birisini \u00fcst\u00fcn tutacak olsayd\u0131m k\u0131zlar\u0131 \u00fcst\u00fcn tutard\u0131m.\u201d<\/i> buyurdu. (\u0130bn-i Hacer, el-Met\u00e2libu\u2019l-\u00e2liye,<\/i> IV, 69; Heysem\u00ee, IV, 153)<\/p>\n
Ali -rad\u0131yallahu anh- da buna benzer bir h\u00e2diseyi \u015f\u00f6yle anlat\u0131r:<\/p>\n
Res\u00fblullah -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- bize gelmi\u015fti. H\u00fcseyin i\u00e7ecek bir \u015fey istedi. Allah Res\u00fbl\u00fc kalkarak bizim koyunun yan\u0131na vard\u0131 ve onu sa\u011fd\u0131. O esn\u00e2da Hasan onun yan\u0131na var\u0131p s\u00fct i\u00e7mek istedi, ancak Res\u00fblullah ondan \u00f6nce H\u00fcseyin\u2019e verdi. F\u00e2t\u0131ma:<\/p>\n
\u2013 Y\u00e2 Res\u00fblallah, sanki H\u00fcseyin\u2019i daha \u00e7ok seviyorsunuz, deyince:<\/p>\n
\u201c\u2013 Hay\u0131r, o daha \u00f6nce istemi\u015fti\u201d <\/i>buyurdu. (\u0130bn-i Hanbel,\u00a0 I, 101)<\/p>\n
Yine birg\u00fcn Efendimiz, torunu \u00dcmame\u2019yi yan\u0131na \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rm\u0131\u015f, g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn ken\u00e2r\u0131nda kir oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcnce onu bizzat silmi\u015f ve temizlemi\u015ftir. (\u0130bn-i Sa\u2019d, VIII, 233)<\/p>\n
\u00c2i\u015fe -rad\u0131yallahu anh\u00e2- \u015f\u00f6yle anlat\u0131yor:<\/p>\n
\u00dcs\u00e2me bin Zeyd kap\u0131n\u0131n e\u015fi\u011fine tak\u0131l\u0131p d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. Y\u00fcz\u00fcnde yara a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131 ve kanamaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Res\u00fblullah -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- hemen ilgilenip bana:<\/p>\n
\u201c\u2013 \u00c7ocu\u011fun y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc temizleyiver!\u201d <\/i>dedi.<\/p>\n
Ben biraz tiksinir gibi oldum. Bunun \u00fczerine kendisi kalkt\u0131, kan\u0131 temizledi ve su serperek \u00dcs\u00e2me\u2019nin y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc y\u0131kad\u0131. Sonra da dedi ki:<\/p>\n
\u201c\u2013 \u00dcs\u00e2me k\u0131z olmu\u015f olsayd\u0131 onu z\u00eenet e\u015fyalar\u0131 ile\u00a0 s\u00fcsler, g\u00fczel elbiseler giydirir ve c\u00e2zibeli h\u00e2le getirirdim.\u201d <\/i>(\u0130bn-i M\u00e2ce, Nik\u00e2h, 49; \u0130bn-i Sa\u2019d, IV, 61-62)<\/p>\n
\u00c2z\u00e2d etti\u011fi k\u00f6lesi Zeyd bin H\u00e2rise\u2019nin o\u011flu olan \u00dcs\u00e2me, Efendimiz\u2019in muhabbetine mazhar olmu\u015f ve \u201cH\u0131bb\u00fc\u2019n-Neb\u00ee: Hz. Peygamber\u2019in \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fi kimse\u201d \u00fcnv\u00e2n\u0131yla y\u00e2dolunmu\u015f bir sah\u00e2b\u00eedir. \u00d6mr\u00fc boyunca \u0130sl\u00e2m ordular\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda Allah\u2019\u0131n d\u00eenini yaymak i\u00e7in cih\u00e2d etmi\u015ftir. Allah Res\u00fbl\u00fc\u2019n\u00fcn \u00dcs\u00e2me\u2019ye olan sevgisi biraz da ona babal\u0131k yapmas\u0131ndan kaynaklanmaktad\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Zeyd -rad\u0131yallahu anh- \u015fehid olmu\u015ftu. Fahr-i K\u00e2in\u00e2t Efendimiz \u015fehid olan bu aziz sah\u00e2b\u00eesinin em\u00e2netlerini kendi evlatlar\u0131 gibi s\u00e2hipleniyor ve muh\u00e2faza ediyordu.<\/p>\n
Allah Res\u00fbl\u00fc \u00e2ilesine her t\u00fcrl\u00fc yard\u0131mda bulunmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde bu s\u00fcnnete gere\u011fi kadar titizlik g\u00f6sterilmemektedir. \u00c2ilesine yard\u0131m etmeyi k\u0131l\u0131b\u0131kl\u0131k sayan ve bunu bir haysiyet meselesi yapan kimseler bilmelidir ki bir kimsenin \u00e2ilesine yard\u0131m etmesi, utan\u0131lacak bir \u015fey de\u011fil, aksine Fahr-i K\u00e2in\u00e2t Efendimiz\u2019in s\u00fcnnetidir. Yani bir erkek han\u0131m\u0131na ne kadar \u00e7ok yard\u0131mc\u0131 olursa s\u00fcnnete o kadar \u00e7ok ittib\u00e2 ediyor demektir. \u201cKad\u0131nlar y\u00fcz vermeye gelmez, onlara ac\u0131mayacaks\u0131n\u201d \u015feklindeki anlay\u0131\u015f ger\u00e7ek bir M\u00fcsl\u00fcman tavr\u0131 olamaz. Ancak bir erke\u011fin, han\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n me\u015fru olmayan isteklerine ve hayat tarz\u0131na itiraz etmeyerek her dedi\u011fini yapmas\u0131 da yerilen bir tav\u0131rd\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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