\u201cEn hay\u0131rl\u0131n\u0131z kad\u0131nlar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 <\/b><\/p>\n
ahl\u00e2ken en hay\u0131rl\u0131 olanlar\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r.\u201d <\/b><\/p>\n
\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Tirmiz\u00ee, Rad\u00e2`, 11<\/p>\n
Kur\u2019\u00e2n-\u0131 Ker\u00eem\u2019de peygamberlerin, \u00fcmmetlerine \u00f6rnek olabilmeleri i\u00e7in evlendikleri, \u00e7oluk \u00e7ocuk s\u00e2hibi olduklar\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle bildirilir:<\/p>\n
\u201cBiz senden evvel de Res\u00fbller g\u00f6nderdik, onlara da zevceler ve \u00e7ocuklar verdik.\u201d <\/b>(er-Ra\u2018d 13\/38)<\/p>\n
T\u0131pk\u0131 di\u011fer peygamberler gibi Res\u00fblullah -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- de, be\u015fer olmas\u0131n\u0131n gere\u011fi evlenmi\u015f, herkese \u00f6rnek te\u015fkil edecek huzurlu bir \u00e2ile hayat\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f ve bir efendinin han\u0131m\u0131na, bir baban\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 nas\u0131l mu\u00e2mele etmesi gerekti\u011fini en g\u00fczel \u015fekliyle kendi hayat\u0131nda g\u00f6stermi\u015f, \u00e2ile fertlerinin hak ve vazifeleri hususunda esaslar ortaya koymu\u015ftur. Sevgili Peygamberimiz\u2019in ortaya koydu\u011fu \u015fu umum\u00ee k\u0131stas, sa\u011flam ve huzurlu bir \u00e2ile kurmaya k\u00e2fi gelece\u011fi gibi, faziletli bir cemiyetin de temel ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131r:<\/p>\n
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\u00a0\u201cM\u00fc\u2019minlerin \u00eem\u00e2n bak\u0131m\u0131ndan en m\u00fckemmeli, ahl\u00e2k\u0131 en iyi olan\u0131d\u0131r. En hay\u0131rl\u0131n\u0131z ise; kad\u0131nlar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 ahl\u00e2ken en hay\u0131rl\u0131 olanlar\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r.\u201d <\/i>(Tirmiz\u00ee, Rad\u00e2` 11; Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, S\u00fcnnet, 15)<\/p>\n
Mu\u00e2viye bin Hayde -rad\u0131yallahu anh-\u00a0 \u015f\u00f6yle anlat\u0131r:<\/p>\n
\u2013 Y\u00e2 Res\u00fblallah! Kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bizim \u00fczerimizdeki hakk\u0131 nedir? diye sordum.<\/p>\n
Efendimiz \u015f\u00f6yle buyurdu:<\/p>\n
\u201c\u2013 Yedi\u011finiz \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde yedirmek, giydi\u011finiz seviyede giydirmek, y\u00fczlerine vurmamak, yapt\u0131klar\u0131 i\u015fin ve kendilerinin \u00e7irkin oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylememek, onlar\u0131 yataklar\u0131nda yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakmak gerekirse bu i\u015fi s\u00e2dece evde yapmakt\u0131r.\u201d <\/i>(Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, Nk\u00e2h, 40-41; \u0130bn-i M\u00e2ce, Nik\u00e2h, 3)<\/p>\n
\u00c2ile reisli\u011fi, fazilet ve sev\u00e2b\u0131 kadar ayn\u0131 zamanda mesuliyeti de b\u00fcy\u00fck olan bir i\u015ftir. Gere\u011fince yap\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda han\u0131m ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ma\u011fduriyetine sebep olur. \u00c2ile yuvas\u0131 da\u011f\u0131lan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ise g\u00fczel bir \u015fekilde terbiye edilip cemiyete kazand\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmamaktad\u0131r. Bu sebeple cidd\u00ee bir sorumlulu\u011fu gerektiren \u00e2ile reisli\u011fi hususunda Fahr-i K\u00e2in\u00e2t -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- Efendimiz\u2019in hayat\u0131ndan n\u00fcm\u00fbneler almam\u0131z zar\u00fbr\u00eedir. \u00c2lemlerin Efendisi\u2019nin \u00e2ilesine kar\u015f\u0131 mu\u00e2melesinden tesbit etti\u011fimiz baz\u0131 esaslar\u0131 \u015f\u00f6ylece h\u00fcl\u00e2sa etmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr:<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u201cEn hay\u0131rl\u0131n\u0131z kad\u0131nlar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 ahl\u00e2ken en hay\u0131rl\u0131 olanlar\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r.\u201d \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Tirmiz\u00ee, Rad\u00e2`, 11 Kur\u2019\u00e2n-\u0131 Ker\u00eem\u2019de peygamberlerin, \u00fcmmetlerine \u00f6rnek olabilmeleri i\u00e7in evlendikleri, \u00e7oluk \u00e7ocuk s\u00e2hibi olduklar\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle bildirilir: \u201cBiz senden evvel… <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[279],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3989","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-usveihasene2"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3G27m-12l","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3989","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3989"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3989\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7483,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3989\/revisions\/7483"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3989"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3989"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kuranvesunnetyolunda.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3989"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}