\u201cRabbimiz, kalplerimizde \u00eem\u00e2n <\/b><\/p>\n
\u00a0<\/b>edenlere kar\u015f\u0131 hi\u00e7bir kin b\u0131rakma\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n
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Kin, \u00f6\u00e7 almaya y\u00f6nelik kalpte yerle\u015fen d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k duygusudur. \u00d6zellikle, \u00e2cizli\u011fi sebebiyle hemen intikam alamayan kimsenin kalbine yerle\u015fen \u00f6fke, gizli bir d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k duygusuna, kine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Kin duydu\u011fu \u015fahsa i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e k\u0131zan ki\u015fi, intikam almak i\u00e7in daima f\u0131rsat kollar. Yani kinin ba\u015fl\u0131ca kayna\u011f\u0131 \u00f6fke, nefret ve intikam h\u0131rs\u0131d\u0131r. Bir \u00e2yet-i ker\u00eemede k\u00e2firlerin m\u00fc\u2019minlere kar\u015f\u0131 besledi\u011fi bu olumsuz duygulara \u015f\u00f6yle dikkat \u00e7ekilmektedir: <\/b><\/p>\n
\u201cEy \u00eem\u00e2n edenler! Kendi d\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakileri s\u0131rda\u015f edinmeyin. Onlar size fenal\u0131k etmekten asla geri durmazlar, hep s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131ya d\u00fc\u015fmenizi isterler. Ger\u00e7ekten \u015fiddetli nefret ve d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131klar\u0131, a\u011f\u0131zlar\u0131ndan <\/b>(d\u00f6k\u00fclen s\u00f6zlerinden) belli olmaktad\u0131r. Kalplerinde saklad\u0131klar\u0131 <\/b>(nefret, kin ve haset) ise daha b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr.\u201d <\/b>(\u00c2l-i \u0130mr\u00e2n 3\/118)<\/p>\n
Durum b\u00f6yle olunca kin bir\u00e7ok manev\u00ee hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131n menba\u0131 konumundad\u0131r. Bunlar\u0131n ba\u015fl\u0131calar\u0131, haset, g\u0131ybet, ili\u015fkileri kesme, insanlar\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama, s\u0131rlar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klama, \u00e7e\u015fitli \u015fekillerde eziyet etme, bor\u00e7 ve benzeri y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fcklerini yerine getirmeme ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n felaketlerine sevinme gibi insan\u0131 y\u00fcksek ahl\u00e2k\u00ee niteliklerden uzakla\u015ft\u0131ran davran\u0131\u015f ve huylard\u0131r. (Gaz\u00e2l\u00ee, III, 339) Hz. Peygamber -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem-, m\u00fc\u2019mine yak\u0131\u015fmayan bu t\u00fcr k\u00f6t\u00fc huylardan uzak kalmak ve \u00fcmmetine \u00f6rnek olmak \u00fczere:<\/p>\n
\u201cEy Rabbim!… kalbime hid\u00e2yet eyle, dilimi do\u011fru k\u0131l, g\u00f6\u011fs\u00fcmdeki hile ve kin duygusunu gider\u201d<\/i> diye du\u00e2 ve niy\u00e2zda bulunmu\u015ftur. (Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, Vitr, 25; Tirmiz\u00ee, Deav\u00e2t, 102)<\/p>\n
Bir had\u00eeslerinde de kin ve hasedin insan\u0131n din\u00ee hayat\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l tahrip etti\u011fini \u015fu \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 \u00fcslubuyla beyan etmi\u015ftir:<\/p>\n
\u201cSize ge\u00e7mi\u015f milletlerin haset ve kin hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 sir\u00e2yet etti. Bunlar kaz\u0131y\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r. Bilesiniz; kaz\u0131y\u0131c\u0131 derken sa\u00e7\u0131 kaz\u0131rlar demiyorum. Dini kaz\u0131y\u0131c\u0131d\u0131rlar. Nefsimi kudret elinde tutan Z\u00e2t-\u0131 Z\u00fclcel\u00e2l\u2019e yemin ederim ki, sizler \u00eem\u00e2n etmedik\u00e7e cennete giremezsiniz. Birbirinizi sevmedik\u00e7e de \u00eem\u00e2n etmi\u015f olamazs\u0131n\u0131z. Birbirinizi sevmeye yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak \u015feyi haber vereyim mi: Aran\u0131zda sel\u00e2m\u0131 yay\u0131n\u0131z.\u201d<\/i> (Tirmiz\u00ee, K\u0131y\u00e2me, 57)<\/p>\n
Hadis-i \u015fer\u00eefin i\u015faret etti\u011fi \u00fczere fertleri birbirine kar\u015f\u0131 sevgisiz, d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k hissi besleyen, kin ve nefret duygular\u0131yla dolu olan bir toplumda \u00f6ncelikle din\u00ee duygular yara alm\u0131\u015f demektir. Halk\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n dilinde de bu hakikat \u201chi\u00e7bir zaman din ile kin bir arada bulunmaz\u201d ifadesiyle dile getirilmi\u015ftir. Din\u00ee duygular\u0131n zay\u0131flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir toplumda ise ahlakl\u0131, sa\u011flam karakterli, birbirine sayg\u0131l\u0131 insanlar\u0131n say\u0131s\u0131 da olduk\u00e7a azd\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bundan dolay\u0131 kin, y\u00fcce dinimiz taraf\u0131ndan k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f, k\u0131nanm\u0131\u015f ve yasaklanm\u0131\u015f, M\u00fcsl\u00fcman kalbinin bu k\u00f6t\u00fc hasletten ar\u0131nmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi \u00fczerinde durulmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n
Abdullah bin Amr -rad\u0131yall\u00e2hu anh\u00fcma-\u2019n\u0131n nakletti\u011fi bir riv\u00e2yete g\u00f6re Res\u00fclullah -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem-\u2019e:<\/p>\n
\u2013 \u0130nsanlar\u0131n en \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fc kimdir? diye soruldu.<\/p>\n
Efendimiz:<\/p>\n
\u201c\u2013 Kalbi mahm\u00fbm, do\u011fru s\u00f6zl\u00fc olan herkes\u201d<\/i> diye mukabelede bulundu.<\/p>\n
Ashab:<\/p>\n
\u2013 Do\u011fru s\u00f6zl\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ne anlama geldi\u011fini biliyoruz ama \u201cmahm\u00fbm\u00fc\u2019l-kalb\u201d ne demektir? diye sordu.<\/p>\n
Efendimiz -sallallalahu aleyhi ve sellem- de \u015f\u00f6yle buyurdular:<\/p>\n
\u201c\u2013 Bu Allah\u2019tan korkan tertemiz kalptir, i\u00e7inde hi\u00e7 bir g\u00fcnah, zul\u00fcm, kin ve haset yoktur.\u201d<\/i> (\u0130bn-i M\u00e2ce, Z\u00fchd, 24)<\/p>\n
Kur\u2019\u00e2n-\u0131 Ker\u00eem de m\u00fc\u2019minleri kin ve benzeri k\u00f6t\u00fc huylara kar\u015f\u0131 uyararak, insanlar\u0131 affetmeye y\u00f6nlendirir. Hz. Eb\u00fb Bekir\u2019in Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe\u2019ye iftira eden akrabalar\u0131ndan Mistah\u2019a, bir daha yard\u0131m etmeyece\u011fine yemin etmesi \u00fczerine n\u00e2zil olan \u00e2yette, ba\u011f\u0131\u015flaman\u0131n ehemmiyetine \u015fu ifadelerle dikkat \u00e7ekilmektedir:<\/p>\n
\u201cSizden fazilet ve servet sahibi kimseler, yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bulunanlara, yoksullara, Allah yolunda hicret edenlere, bir \u015fey vermemeye yemin etmesinler; ba\u011f\u0131\u015flas\u0131nlar; feragat g\u00f6stersinler. Allah\u2019\u0131n sizi ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamas\u0131n\u0131 istemez misiniz?\u201d<\/b> (en-N\u00fbr 24\/22; Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, Tefs\u00eer, 24\/6)<\/p>\n
Bir ba\u015fka \u00e2yette ger\u00e7ek M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n:<\/p>\n
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\u201cRabbimiz kalplerimizde \u00eem\u00e2n edenlere kar\u015f\u0131 hi\u00e7bir kin b\u0131rakma\u201d<\/b> (el-Ha\u015fr 59\/10) diye du\u00e2 ettikleri belirtilmektedir.<\/p>\n
Fahr-i K\u00e2in\u00e2t -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem- bir had\u00ees-i \u015fer\u00eefte M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n birbirlerine haset ve bu\u011fz etmemeleri gerekti\u011fini emrederken (M\u00fcslim, Birr 32) di\u011fer bir had\u00ees-i \u015ferifte kalplerde bulunan kin ve nefretin izalesi i\u00e7in hediyele\u015fmenin l\u00fczumuna \u015fu \u015fekilde de\u011finmektedir:<\/p>\n
\u201cHediyele\u015finiz; zira hediye kalpteki kin ve nefreti giderir.\u201d<\/i> (Tirmiz\u00ee, Hibe, 6)<\/p>\n
\u00d6te yandan kinin genellikle k\u00f6t\u00fc bir duygu oldu\u011funu ortaya koyan \u00e2yet ve hadislerden hareketle bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131n, herkesi ve her \u015feyi sevmek zorunda oldu\u011fu da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmemelidir. Hz. Peygamber -sallall\u00e2hu aleyhi ve sellem-\u2019in \u201cAmellerin en \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fc, Allah i\u00e7in sevmek Allah i\u00e7in bu\u011fz etmektir\u201d<\/i> (Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, S\u00fcnnnet, 2) had\u00ees-i \u015ferifi esas al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, m\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131n sevdikleri yan\u0131nda sevmedikleri, hatta bu\u011fzedip belki de kin besledikleri olabilecektir. Sevgi ne kadar tatl\u0131 ve s\u0131cak, bu\u011fz ve kin de ne kadar sert ve so\u011fuk g\u00f6r\u00fclse bile, \u201cAllah i\u00e7in\u201d oldu\u011fu zaman bu iki z\u0131t duygu aras\u0131nda hi\u00e7 bir fark kalmayacak, her ikisi de en \u00fcst\u00fcn amel derecesine y\u00fckselecektir. Zira duygu ve davran\u0131\u015flara anlam kazand\u0131ran, onlar\u0131n temelinde yatan niyetler ve y\u00f6neldikleri hedeflerdir. (Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, \u00cem\u00e2n, 41) Allah i\u00e7in seven bir g\u00f6n\u00fcl, Allah dostlar\u0131n\u0131 da sevecek ve sevgisini onlara tabi olmak suretiyle ispat edecektir. Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde Allah i\u00e7in kin tutan bir m\u00fcsl\u00fcman, f\u00e2s\u0131k, z\u00e2lim ve ma\u2019siyet ehlinin yapt\u0131klar\u0131na bu\u011fz ve kin besleyerek onlar\u0131 onaylamayacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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